Ladies this is for you. What pleasures you the most? I'd love to know,seriously.?

Question

I've heard so many different things from the women I've dated like the more money you have the more I'll love you- to them saying to me " that you're going to have to make a choice.Either spend all your free time with her and give up my visitation with my two kids." To I'll have to give up one of the two in order to stay wwith her, those things are my two kids or my job." Are these women CRAZY or just me? Women want the guys to accept them as a package deal, why not me/us men?

Answer 1

Those women are crazy. Sorry that that is all you are finding. All I want is to be treated as a human being. I will treat you the way I would like to be treated. Money is meaning less to me.

Answer 2

What a "lady" wants will depend on her experience, background, age, and her goal(s) in life...no two are the same.

It sounds like the women you have dated are immature and self-centered and cannot relate because they don't have children and/or a job.

Not to be mean, but perhaps you are going after girls, and I mean that in the literal sense of "girls", not women, that look good and are attracted to physically as the deciding factor of whom to engage in a relationship with. If that is what you are seeking and not real women that maybe have kids and can relate, than the girls that you are dating are not "crazy" but you are.

Answer 3

First, these women are crazy. Second its sometimes hard for women to accept that you have children with another women( I dont know why this is) But it sounds to me like your dating the wrong women. They make demands like this, cut them loose, your children should come first and your job? Ummmmmm Hello? Food....Clothing.....Shelter? The right women will accept you, your kids, and your job.

Answer 4

The things I expect in a mate are commitment, problem-solving abilities, and a desire for the well-being of me and any children I might have. Of course, I have the same expectations of myself: commitment, problem-solving abilities, and a desire for the well-being of my mate and any children he might have. I define commitment as a willingness to do what it takes to fix any problems that might hinder the well-being of the people involved.

Maybe the women you dated were greedy, or maybe they "fell out of love" and were subconsciously looking for excuses to end the relationship. I recommend this article, "The Monogamy Challenge," which uses knowledge about biology and psychology to explain why it can difficult to stay in love with the same person and what we can do to make it easier to stay in love: http://www.reuniting.info/science/evolution_monogamy_and_promiscuity. I hope it helps.

Answer 5

well barry the things that u have been told by ur old girlfriends r not ur girl..sounds to me that they r out to get what it is that they want.. and as a woman i can tell u that we can be evil at times for no reasons. but no real woman would tell her man r boyfriend to make a choice between his kids..all a real woman wants is to help u with them r they don't want u at all..now for the money part u do have to have some to spare also with us,her r ladys...

Answer 6

What pleasures me the most is to have a man that is responsible, loving, honest, and ready and willing to help me or anyone who needs it without complaining about it. to me , I would rather pay for my own things and work for my own things, instead of a man buying it for me. But that is me, and most women want men for their $$$, and not whats inside. And that is why I am single and Independent.

Answer 7

those women are crazy!!! i suggest hitting on another group of women who will accept you as a 'package deal'

Answer 8

those girls are immature and shallow baby dont sweat em