I'm thirty something and finally have my life in order. My career is secure, I have a long term assignment for work. The problem is that I live at home. I have not made my millions so I rely on my parents for financial support. I'll be upfront and honest with any woman. It is better for two financially stable people to be married than alone.
Is there any shame in this?
2007-01-13 20:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no shame at all in doing the right thing, if you believe it's the right thing for you then it is !
Any woman would be happy to be in a relationship with a man who has a good secure career and is open and honest, what more could any woman want!
there may come a time when you could consider moving out of home, perhaps when you find that someone special for you, but thease things take time and are best not to be rushed into. If I were not already spoken for I would sure smile in your direction and look forward to meeting your famialy, after all they are a part of you and any woman interested in you will also accept your fmialy situation.
good luck with your future, it sounds like you wont be single for long!
2007-01-13 20:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong reason and you already knew that! Let me tell you a secret: Marriage is difficult enough when it's done for love, let alone money. Money? Living on one income happily is better than living on two incomes and being miserable. Think about that. If you make enough to live on your own, it's pretty selfish to use your parents. Be a respectable man, pay your own way, attract a confident woman that you will fall in love with, and then get married. I don't know how well you living at home at your age will work in attracting a confident woman. You're giving her reason to respect you less right from the start and if she's independent and on her own, she won't see you for much more than a mooch. Ugly! Very ugly!
2007-01-14 04:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow you are a romantic--of course 2 employed people can live rather well. But if the dollars are all that hold it together---you won't last long--you better get out of the parents house and start living in the real world of people to people contact---women and men do exist without money being the main focus. It would seem that a second job would help you live as good as with another person--no fights over the money either
2007-01-14 04:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say, but yes there is. If you are ready for a true relationship, you need to have experience living on your own and paying your own way in life as practice to learn to co-habitate with another person, which should the desired result in dating.
If co-habitation and marriage are not in your perceived future, you need to be honest with your potenital suitees in your endeavors; however, no woman in her right mind, myself inclusive, is going to want to go home with you to have sex or have sex at her place it you claim to make a decent living and have your life in order, yet still live with your parents!
2007-01-14 04:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say this because my intentions are not to hurt your feelings but you are totally tripping out!!!! You MUST move out of your parent's pad and live your life. You will learn so much more about yourself, your likes and dislikes. Any woman that would date a man that lives with his parents is pretty much a loser herself. The only way I would date a dude that lived with his parents...parents are dying and he's taking care of them!!! Sorry!
2007-01-14 04:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tmatt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have a secure carrer already, why dont you move out?
geez...ever watch Failure to Launch movie? Men who lives with their momma and papa are so bizzare..especially when they are 30's already!!!You can get a small room w reasonable price..until how old u r going to life w ur parents? when u hit 50's..?
Well, got luck w finding one...
2007-01-14 04:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel sorry for your parents and any woman wanting to hold a relationship with you. You're just closing doors on yourself.
2007-01-14 04:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by changafregada 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋