This happened to me.
Just last year, my parents told me I have a half brother and a half sister from my mother's side from a man she married long ago
I only seen my mom's son twice and I never seen the daughter.
I also think that she has a third son she is just not telling me
I've never been upset about it at all.
I just don't like her kids.
1) Is it normal not to like them?
2) How would you feel about this and what would you do if this happened to you?
2007-01-13 19:56:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It did happen to me. Why would you not like them? You should feel for them. They lost their mother. My sister feels the same way you do. She doesn't want our half-brother around. She says it's because he's weird. Yes, he is weird. He's had to deal with being abandoned by his father. That hurts. It makes people weird when it happens to them. Be cool. Be a sister. Don't be surprised if you end up being really glad you did. These people are your blood. It's a good thing!
2007-01-13 20:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by itry007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres no rule that says you have to like them. I have a half brother who was given up long before I was born and I have no idea who he is or what happened to him. It would be nice to know if he was ok.
2007-01-13 20:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just found out, give it time to sink in.
Don't blame them for not knowing.....
Who knows you may have a lot in common.
Time will tell.
Best wishes
I think I would be upset at first then I would think of it
as an adventure........more the merrier....
2007-01-13 20:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel betrayed. I would have a hard time getting close to them because we are strangers but they do have the same blood as me so I would be curious to know them.
2007-01-13 20:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that I wouldn't like them but, I'm not you. I don't know why you don't like them but, you have your reasons. If it were me, I would be very shocked and want to know why they waited to tell me but, after the shock wore off, I would want to know my siblings. Get to know them, you may be surprised that you have a lot in common.
2007-01-13 20:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal not to like them if you didnt grow up with them as siblings. to you they are like new babies in the family. i have a half sister and i grew up with her as a full sister. you dont have to like them if theyre no bad. hey its a free country
2007-01-13 20:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why would you like them?....I think it was too long for mom to wait to tell you, my trust in her my be a tad less...good luck, there are worse things in life and I am sure she had her reasons...
2007-01-13 20:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
question 1: it depends if the half-sister is hot or not.
question 2: see question 1.
2007-01-13 20:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋