i dnt knw wat to call myself.. i love boys, their the most persious thing on earth... but i also think i hav a thing for girls... i mean i think its gross n everything, but its this strange feelin i get around gay girls.... a despreation to make out wit them.... can som 1 help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 19:27:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen. You don't need help. You are a human being and you have an attraction to both sexes. People are so big on labeling:bi, gay, lesbian, whatever. You are just YOU! Why is that a problem? It may be to someone else but you are not here to answer and please someone else. You owe it to you to please yourself. Be respectful, enjoy people's company, laugh, have a good time, see who (not what) you fall in love with. You may just be curious and that's not a problem either, it's normal. Human nature is to be curious and because everyone is different, their curiosities are also different. Follow your heart, not your desperation and hormones. You'll find your own answer!
2007-01-13 19:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, it's really not that uncommon to have feelings for girls. You're curious in general about it and that's ok. There's nothing gross about being gay or bisexual either. Give yourself a little time to figure out what you want. Even if you experiment with a girl, that doesn't mean you're gay. I honestly wouldn't stress over it too much. They're just thoughts and there's nothing wrong with thinking about other girls in that way.
2007-01-13 19:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might just be having bisexual feelings and thoughts and or you may be bisexual. If you think its gross then keep your bisexuality for a three some 1 guy 2 girls. A lot of guys will like that.
2007-01-13 19:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be your just curious? I had a friend who was in a similar situation. So one day, she tried it, and made out with another girl. But then thats all that happened. When she told me about this, I asked her if she was bi- and she said no she still loves guys, she was just curious and she had to see what it was like. She only does guys now! good luck in figuring it out!
2007-01-13 19:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they want to, try making out with them. A little experimentation is okay for your sexual growth. If it helps you define yourself, by all means.... if you like it... you're probably bisexual. There's nothing wrong with that either! But you'll probably feel better knowing for sure, right?
2007-01-13 19:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by littlekitty1985 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-13 19:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, it's ok, and very normal for you to feel that way. If you choose to check out women, have a good time, be safe but have a very good time.
2007-01-13 19:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make out with them and see what you think, if you like it then your bi
2007-01-13 19:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Girllll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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