im gonna be honest about myself so please dont report me.
negative:
i only go out on one night stands, i have no problem picking up hookers, i love getting drunk, i like to pop the occasional painkillers, downers, cocaine and marijuana (but i never do these drugs frequenlty enough to biuld an addiction). i tend to go for girls who have no respect for themselves and are incredibly drunk. i party constantly, im a bartender. i love to go to vegas and gamble like crazy. i have also been involved in drug orgies(only 2).
positive:
im very deep, very into philosophy, spiritual but very from from religious, friendly, loyal, funny, every woman i have had a real relationship with i have remaind loving caring and faithful and treat her with respect and like a queen. i see the world for what it realy is and dont exist in denial or delusion. i cant stand any type of organized religion.
but what do you think of me? what kind of person am i?? am i messed up?
2007-01-13 19:05:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are no bad people, only bad decisions... and consequences we don't like.
2007-01-13 19:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by littlekitty1985 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Joe, was up? I'm gonna be honest with you now. Of all the people I know, { a lot!}, you sound like one of the most sincere, real and decent folks around. I say this for this reason: Although I don't 'agree' with your neg. side, you've come to grips with it, accept it and are honest about it. That's HUGE!! { do u know how many like this in denial?!!probably the ones telling you you're messed up!!} I actually wish I knew you. On you're pos. side, I'm assuming you're telling the truth about it. Why give all that info about neg.s, and b.s. about that, right? The only question I'd have is, are you straight up with the people you're involved with? As long as everyone knows what you're about, Cool, Rock On!! Don't feel messed up. be PROUD of your honesty, the good, loving, true man you are when you ARE in a relationship AND the fact that you are knowledgeable about the crazy B.S. organized religion 'preaches!! {ps. Please be careful with the pills they're dolling out now a days! Shi*heads are making that shi* in their basements and people are dying!}{ oh, and stay the fuc* away from H!!}
2007-01-14 03:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a bad person since you have enough conscience to ask this question...but yeah...you are messed up.One night stands ..hookers...drugs...they're all for the thrill of the moment. But since ur into philosophy,im sure u understand you'll never be really happy and content with this stuff. Its leading u nowhere.At the end of it all,you're only gonna find yourself lonely,empty,and frustrated.
So get a grip on yourself now.You have the potential to be a good guy and a loyal and loving partner.Be that.Good luck :)
2007-01-14 03:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound totally messed up, but could be a great guy if you deal with what sounds like some obvious self-esteem and addictive personality issues.
You go for girls that don't respect themselves or are drunk because they are an easy target and perhaps, you truly deep down don't think that you deserve better.
You drink and do drugs because you are a spiritual person but know you are not living your life right, so you anesthetize yourself to blot out the pain.
2007-01-14 03:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doing all those negative things doesnt make you a bad person, but obviously you have made some very bad decisions. my best friend, jessie, also enjoys partying (the sort of parties with lots of drugs and sex) and doing drugs and she says she likes it, but shes not addicted. since i live overseas from her now, its not like i can force her to stop before she hurts herself but if thats what she likes, then im not going to try anymore. i guess people could say the same for you.
just dont get too caught up, because people will stop caring and then you'll have no one to help you when you need it the most.
2007-01-14 03:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by ohyes_itsbekah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think ur a bad person, I just think you don't have any self respect. all the things you put under "negative" sounds to me like self abuse. do you think you deserve better than that physically, sexually, socially. maybe you're questioning wether or not your a bad person because you feel like a bad person, but not because of how you treat others, more so because of how you treat yourself
2007-01-14 03:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a young man? If so uhave time to grow up just take care in unprotected sex. If you an older man grow up.
2007-01-14 03:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by chersgaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r damn messed up.How can u be loyal when u go out for 1 nite stands?contradicting
2007-01-14 03:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, u r not a bad person but u r very real.u r wat u r.u are'nt messed up in any way n this i can say because u kno yourself very well.there r no negatives in u coz u do wat u enjoy the most.i myself m not able to do the things i like because of family restrictions.u r even cautious coz u say u avoid drug addiction.i respect u n i m honestly a little jealous of u n ur life.to hell with others n their opinions abt u.Gudluck for up coming things.
ENJOY!
2007-01-14 03:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup yur a bad person id suggest sittin down thinkin out yur llife and where yur headed with it
2007-01-14 03:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by emperor_ham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jason? Is that you, man?! The Carnival trip to Rio is on for February, Bro! Ha, ha, ha, ha!
2007-01-14 03:21:41 · answer #11 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋