the girl i like sometimes pisses me off a lot......should i tell her about it?

Question

We went out a few times every month. like her a lot but I am not sure how she feels about me.

However, there is something I don't like about her. She sometimes stop talking during a middle of MSN conversation and kept me there waiting for like half an hr. It pisses me off a lot but i still sucked it up since i like her so much.

My point is: Should I be a "yes" man and kiss her *** all the time.....or I should express how I feel like I usually do to all my friends.

It require so much effort for me not to complain, but I wonder if girls like guys like me? How do I express how i feel and not ruin our relationship at the same time?

Answer 1

Something similar happened to me. Dude you've got to let her know cause otherwise she will walk all over you and have no respect for you. I had a similar thing happen to me. I was talking with a girl online and she said she'd be right back. So I waited for a bit thinking she'd be back in 10 or 15 minutes at the absolute most. I waited a bit longer. I messed around looking at some videos online. Then I waited longer. Then I wake up 2 hours later after I've fallen asleep at my computer and she still hadn't said a word. It was cool though cause she'd gotten in a huge fight with her roommates and had went over to her neighbor's house and she profusely apologized and felt bad cause she forgot that she'd left me waiting. If something pisses you off justifiably then tell her about it.

Answer 2

First off, why are you having a relationship through MSN?? You should be asking her on dates and getting to know her better to see if things will progress. She's probably ignoring you at some point because a cyber relationship can only go so far and she needs more than the computer screen and typed words. Plus, she's probably doing something else and doesn't mean to leave you hanging. Ask her to let you know when she'll get back if she happens to leave. Let her know it bugs you, but in a nice way.

You don't need to suck up to her. Just be yourself and do your best to get to know her without being at her beck and call. You have a life too, don't forget that. When you have someone new in your life, you are adding them to it, not rearranging everything for them. You can't gain anything from a relationship if you have nothing to offer. Plus people are more interesting when they have other things going on besides just the one person. It makes conversations a lot better too. Good luck!

Answer 3

Well, there are two ways to fix this issue, 1) you suck it up like you were before, and live with it (everyone has flaws), or, 2) you can tell her your feelings, but be gentle. Make sure not to blurt anything out, just suggest or something that instead of leaving you hangin on MSN, have her tell you when she thinks she'll get back. If you really like her, you'll get over her flaws, and love her for who she really is. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Hello edwin,

Yes, tell her that it pisses you off. How can you have a relationship without communication? Some girls will walk all over a boyfriend, if they know that they can get away with it. Next time she does it, get off-line. Have her try to contact you for a change.

It would be better if you just dumped her, edwin. Find a girl that thinks more about you and prefers to kiss your ***, instead.

Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:

http://www.blowmeuptom.com

I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.

--Rick

Answer 5

i guess when it comes to relationships, it's a gradual improvement. so usually, you start of as friends. so at least as a friend, she should be able to understand how you feel. nobody's perfect. that means she's got her shortcomings too. perhaps it would be alright to tell her. true, it's great that you could be tolerant. however, there's a limit. as a friend, you got to let her know where she could improve herself too, in the same way she would be able to help you improve yourself. be honest with her but don't be considerate of how she would feel. don't blame her cruelly. keep your tone casual and light, suggestive. ask her why she let you wait half an hour. she may have her reasons (which weren't intended to hurt you). it really helps to come to a comrpomise.

Answer 6

dump her swety

Answer 7

u r a sucker and she has no respect for you.