he made the first move.first he told me i have a beautiful eyes, then he asked for my number and asked me out, so i said yes because i like him. we just had 1 date, after that everytime he comes to work that's the only time that we can talk, and i just see him twice a week but he never calls anymore. the only problem i have is i;m starting to fall for him. but when i asked him if i still have a chance to be his girl he said 'i don't have to wait',but i still insisted that i'll still wait. many times i invited him hang-out with me as a friend but he always says he's busy and brings me down. but i understand him when he told me that his ex girl friend hurt him and hi doesn't wanna get hurt again, until he never calls me ever again and it's been more than a month since the day i saw him and i really miss him. i like him and i think i already love him. should i still have wait for him,and how will i know if he's ready for a relationship again?
2007-01-13 18:26:36 · 5 answers · asked by bernadette l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to look beyond the words. There's a chance that he doesn't feel the same way about you. I hate to say it, but you have to consider that possibility.
Also, he could be rebounding. Perhaps you are right for him, but he's still angry about what happened. He could be in the middle of trying to get even or trying to stay away from committment.
Wait a bit longer for the dust to settle. When you do talk to him, try not to bring up your feelings in the first couple conversations back. You need to bring back that level of mystery where he's not really sure how you feel, and if he wants to know, he needs to show that he's interested.
So in other words, keep your distance. If it was meant to be, it'll find its own way of working itself out. Good luck...
2007-01-13 18:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You miss someone and possibly love someone that you've had 1 date with, who you talk to maybe twice a week at work, who doesn't call you, who doesn't want to hang out with you, and who you say you'll wait for???
Drop this guy and get on with your life. He obviously isn't wanting any sort of relationship with you....I don't know how clearer it can be.
2007-01-13 18:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by bundysmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...he needs his space...give him time...but never give up on him....always b there for him....don run behind him toooo much...chat wit him once in a while.....but make sure tat u th first 1 to hang up the cal.... !! u shouldn look very very desperate...mind u....!!! jus make him feel comfortable when u wit or aroun him....continue doin tis...and have patience....next time when he'l feel lonely...or alone...or when he'l b in a prob....u'l b th first person he'l remember...!! trust me...
2007-01-13 18:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, any excuse, and I mean any excuse, a man gives a woman to not see her, means he doesn't want to see her. Please don't take it personally and try to move on.
: )
2007-01-13 18:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not ready, dont pressure him, leave him alone
2007-01-13 18:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋