I think this girl is very cute, I work at a bank and she comes often but I dont know much about her except the fact of how much she has in her Bank Account? how would i approach her?
2007-01-13 18:06:27 · 8 answers · asked by CS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she has a lot of money, you definitely do not want to make it look like you're using her. The next time she walks in just smile and say "Hi. How are you?" If you can, carry on a small conversation, but don't make it awkward and when she's leaving say "Have a nice day." Then, if she comes in again, say "I'm going to go have dinner at ______ by myself tonight. Would you like to join me?" That's a little subtle, so you can ask her out without scaring her away. If you guys have a good time, say "I had a really good time tonight. Maybe we can do this again."
2007-01-13 18:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try joking around with her first. Some fun playful conversations might pique her interest. Create a rapport before you make any moves. You want her to go home thinking about you. But be yourself, don't put on anything you are not. But flirty conversation is a good start.
Maybe add a subtle, tasteful compliment...I love your smile! Or, you have beautiful eyes. Whatever really does catch your eyes, what you really do like about her. How she reacts will say a lot as to how she might respond to any further advances. Flirting is a sign she at least finds you attractive, even if she may not really be serious. If she brushes it off, or looks startled, or avoids you in the future...forget it.
2007-01-13 18:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by LaSperanza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you say to her, be decent. Humor is good too. And smile.
Has she smiled at you? Noticed u? That's a sign she recognizes you too. Just introduce yourself. See where the conversation goes. All the best! I love to be approached, but men usually just seem shy, which doesn't help, even though I love shy men. So go ahead, and you have nothing to lose.
2007-01-13 18:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you've seen her around before and you wonder if she would like to get a cup of coffee some time.
2007-01-13 18:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you can't help but notice her when she comes in and ask her if she's single.Then ask her if she'd like to go to lunch sometime to talk.
2007-01-13 18:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirtaciously. It's very sexy. Just flirt with her, man.
2007-01-13 18:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Babs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell her this. It would risk your job though.
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2007-01-13 18:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by manjari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude.. is she loaded? if so.. ask her out to lunch ... she's buying!
2007-01-13 18:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by zakattak 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋