OK... First of all FYI I am 17.
The first girl is my current girlfriend. We used to date for 3 yrs, and then broke up due to maturaty reasons, but now we are back together.
The other girl is my ex. She broke up w/ me but only because she was forced to move to Reno, we tried the long distance thing but she said i hurt too much... We promised each other we would wait, but then I got a letter from her mother saying how she (ex) thought that I was phycotic and I need help. So I got back w/ girl #1, she said that she still liked me, even more so now that I am mature.
Now come to find out that girl #1 didnt think those things... her mom just wanted me to stop racking up her long disttance phone bill. So now shes comming home. Shes saying how she know she mesed things up btween us and shes sorry. I forgive her...
I just dont know what to do... I love both of these girls... and its real love too... Please help me I just want everyone to be happy.FYI,I WOULD NEVER DATE BOTH TOGHETER
2007-01-13 17:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by J.M.J.F.W. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is rea love and I CAN honestly see my self spending the rest of my life with one of them. Its just that if I dump #1 for #2 then I will lose her forever and shes a realy good friend that I don t ever want to lose. But if I dont go back to #2 then I lose her... and shes an even better friend... Im so stuck.
2007-01-13 17:49:08 · update #1
and in case you didnt pick up un it, girl 2 is comming home... proboly in the next couple weeks.... SO I DO have a timeclock and restraints....
2007-01-13 17:50:49 · update #2
Start dating the mother. Watch the vid "Stacey's Mom" for advice.
2007-01-13 17:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really loved them both, its not the kinda love ur gonna sepnd the rest of ur life with make a smart rational choice and things will work out the girls will find the power to move on, (jeesh most guys cant get one girl lol)
2007-01-14 01:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by leslie0754 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the girl that has closest to the same values that you do. Also consider their hopes and dreams. Which one's hopes and dreams are most compatible with yours. And yes, to copycat, enjoy being 17. You don't have to choose yet.
2007-01-14 02:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being 17, in love w/ 2 ladies. this can be love but take ur time it's infatuation. trust me there will be plenty more. take time for ur self. first love we will never forget and always hold a special place in your heart.
2007-01-14 01:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by ladybonner1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FYI you are NOT yet mature.
If you don't know what to do...don't do anything. there's no time clock and this isnt a contest. just back up and relax...enjoy being 17.
2007-01-14 01:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the girl that moved to reno
2007-01-14 01:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u still cann't keep up the distant relation soo pick girl1
2007-01-14 01:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one you luv
2007-01-14 01:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by jordan-english e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋