Well, awhile back/Christmas day, my girlfriend now ex called me up and said that her ex was back in town, proposed, and she told him yes. I haven't head from her since until tonight(saturday) well, she tells me how much she misses me and misses the way I hold her, my voice, touch, basically everything. Then tells me that she is confused on what to do cause her ex is still married, and that she didn't exactly tell him yes. Well, we did love eachother very much, and I still do love her. Now she calls me telling me this, and my heart is doing flip flops, and my mind is telling me no. I do love her so much, and there is not any thing in this world I wouldn't do, but I don't know if she is just playing games again or what.. What would you all do if you were in this situation. Some one please help me.
2007-01-13 17:33:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously your girl still has feelings for this fellah, but she's now feeling he's playing games because he's still married. Sometimes guys will seek someone out from the past and then immediately lose interest as soon as she says yes. That little voice inside your mind is the one you should probably listen to. There's a verse in the Bible that says the heart is treacherous, for no-one can tell it. I know it hurts, but it may be time to stop listening to your heart when your mind is in disagreement. If you do take her back, make her work for it. Don't make it too easy, but don't make it so hard that you lose her. She messed up and she needs to show you with her effort. Tell her you need some time to think things over, and that you'll have to start over if you do begin again and that things may never be the same. Tell her you don't know how you feel anymore. It may scare her into realizing that she could lose you forever because of her foolish ways. Take care.
2007-01-13 17:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by dollface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to take some time, and please sort her life a little bit more, re-think things, settle issues with her ex, and then return with a more clear head so you both can start off right. I.e. if you still feel she is the right woman to be with.
It is understandable that you are confused about what she really wants, and how serious she is.
2007-01-13 17:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would tell her to make up her mind what she wants. If her ex is married then she would be silly to fall for him. Don't let her play games with your heart. Either tell her to straighten up or find another girl who will give you more love and respect. If she goes with him she will never be happy because he will get tired of her to.
2007-01-13 17:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to tell someone's intentions by their texts, but it kinda looks like she was just really drunk tonight. I wouldn't think too much about the texts. The ball is in her court now. If she calls you to make plans, then you will know she is interested. Otherwise, you may have to move on.
2016-05-23 23:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go back to her. It sounds like this guy led her on to believe that something was going to happen between them and now he's backed out and she wants you back. Women aren't the only one that play these games. Men are pretty good at it too.
2007-01-13 17:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl who is single , forget about her
Dont call her dont email her and dont talk to her.
Have a new lifem dont waste ur life around her
2007-01-13 17:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would at least talk to her and find out what is going on and make sure that she isn't just having problems with him and then using you until they work it out. Just be careful!!!!
2007-01-13 17:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋