Ok my gf comes to me in the past few months around once every two weeks and says she is unhappy and doesn't like me anymore. Ok last time she told me was New Years eve. We fought all night and then i drover her home. We had this same fight around 5 times since the end of October.
Now it been two weeks since the last fight and i think things are ok. This is hows she acting:
When she out she tells me she misses me and loves me.
We have sex and she is very into it.
We say we love you all the time to each other.
We hang out 4 or 5 days a week.
We laugh and have a good time when we are together.
The only bad signs I'm getting are:
She hangs out with her friends more then usual.
She gets mad at me quickly.
When i don't answer my phone she get very mad but when she goes out she doesn't answer.
She said she doesn't like me but when shes out she texts me she loves me and misses me. Also one night i didn't answer and she got very pissed and broke up with me the next day.
2007-01-13 17:29:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she didn't like me wouldn't she not care if i went out and didn't answer my phone. Also why would she tell me she misses me?
2007-01-13 17:31:19 · update #1
sounds to me like it's a control issue. be careful with this one
2007-01-13 17:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, stop right there. Answer me this---doesn't this sound like an odd ball relationship??? Isn't there anotherbgirl in your whole area???Seriously, you two are just playing with each other and you know it. You better get a grip and find a nice normal girl---she'll get over it. This really is immature to say the least.You sir, need to grow up----relationships are NOT supposed to go this way. You are setting yourself up for a big time fall somewhere, someplace , soon. rethink this and you'll see what I mean---you can't possibly tell me you think this is normal. It might be she has issues that you need to get far away from before you go crazy.
2007-01-14 01:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 6 six years, you'd think the both of you would be more in tune with each other. I mean, it's like she doesn't really understand you and hasn't even tried to.
There's also the maturity factor. They usually say women mature a bit faster than men, but this seems to be one of the exceptions. Either she's not at the same level, or she's discovering a new life that she wants to live.
Confront her and move on if necessary. It seems like you've got a lot of life ahead of you, and it's not worth being stuck at a standstill.
2007-01-14 01:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude this is a bummer of a relationship. If she was mine I'd train her. Mine trys to fight with me, but it takes two to fight. I don't allow fighting, and I give her the silent look. She trys to control me, but she knows I am going to live my own life. When I go fishing she knows I won't be home till late. When I go out she knows I'll always come home to her. She knows I won't answer the cell, because I don't like cell phones.
2007-01-14 02:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just sit down and have a heart-to-heart discussion with her. I can't even begin to tell you how important communication is for a healthy relationship. And, if anything, this discussion with her should bring you two closer to each other. Good luck!
2007-01-14 01:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she is such a hassle soo get a new girl or tell her u luv her more and more roses and chocolate and stuff. but the get new girl idea it still u there i meand she doesn't even appreciate u until ur gone so it's better to leave her for a couple of weeks
2007-01-14 01:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋