this guy and me, we're more than friends..but not in a relationship. we've hold hands ppl think that we're are a couple, thing is, if we've never talked about being together, is he mine? how do i bring up the subject to him? he has both me and his ex's photo in his phone,we've went on dates and everything..but we've never talked about being together. i don't know if i'm his good friend or girlfriend.
2007-01-13 17:21:27 · 9 answers · asked by s89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well girl im havin the same problem lol he wants u as both ur like his safety net and he feels comfortable around u if i were u ask him thats what i did with mine and now were going out and its been 3 yrs that we've been together and u also have to ask urself how do u feel toward him do u like him as more than a friend?
2007-01-13 17:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by sexy honda girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there done that. Well, we would talk a lot... not hold hands or anything. But the guys would lead me to believe that they would ask me out... and they never did. They just led me on. The thing I wish I did was being direct with them. Just plain asking them where this is going. I was too young and naive back then.
Just bring it up... ask him, "So where is this going?" You deserve to know and not be led on.
2007-01-13 17:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is only one way to find out. Ask. I know it may not be easy. I have been in those situations lots of time. This is the conversation you should TRY to have.
Him-"So what do you want to do tonight?"
You-"Lets have a night together."
Him-"Ok... So.."
You-"OK, I wanna know something. Are we a couple? People talk about it. And do you want to be?
And from there he should give answers.
2007-01-13 17:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 01:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by roca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably good friend...be open and honest with him....I say not a girl friend with him still having attachments to his ex in his phone. But guys are forgetful to and he may not remember that he still had her number saved. If you bring THAT up it will make you sound like the jealous-insecure type and guys usually steer clear of those kind of girls, but I'm not trying to judge-it's just my opinion.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 17:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by LS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very delicate subject...this must be hard for you...just wait it out patiently...Valentine's Day is coming around the corner soon and maybe you'll have an answer by then...best of luck and take care... :)
2007-01-13 17:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not good to have ur ex's photo in ur phone he will probaly chaeat on u in alittle while soo get ready for a new boyfiend and if u want to bring it u just ask him in a girly voice if ur his then it would be ok maybe at the movies or sumthing
2007-01-13 17:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u'd rather ask him now before u start having feelings for him
2007-01-13 17:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by tas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then ask him.
2007-01-13 17:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋