When should i say I love you to my girlfriend?

Question

we are both young, 15, 14, and were each others first boyfriend/girlfriend. we were also the others first kiss. we've been going out for two months, her b-day is march 30th, and valentines day is in about a month. any thoughts?

Answer 1

Oh, to be young. Say when you are older and know what it means.

Answer 2

Wow, a whole 15 years old and actually knows what love is----how can that be. what is there to love about a 14 year old??? What constitutes love is an adult issue---young people can flit around before the dust even settles,,,
2 whole months is nice but again--it takes years to find out what a person is really made up of---that's the fun of relationships...constantly discovering and appreciating each other. What you want to do is show her you care---talk is cheap---show her that you are maturing and would like to have her company as you go through the next few months...see how it is then. Always be respectful and courteous---you two are not ready for sex---unless you have a job and a home for the baby that might come---- sex is reserved for mature adults--not kids just doing it because everyone else does. Send flowers that say on the card " I really really enjoy your company". If she says the love word---just say I am still trying to figure out what that word means---your whole life is ahead of you---be cool--take it slow---don't throw around words like love-----you will have lots of girlfriends in the future--that's a fact---just concentrate on being a nice guy and having fun. Good luck, man

Answer 3

Being so young, you have to remember that two months probably seems like a year! But as you get older, you'll understand that it's relatively short.

There's really no right answer here, but consider that both of you still have a lot of change to go through in the next couple years, particularly when you get your license, she meets new friends, etc. Love is something that can endure through all that. When you feel like she matters the most in your life, then that's when you should tell her.

Answer 4

first off, your 15 so you don't know what love is, no offense.
but if you really want to make an impression for the rest of her life, here's how you do it. since your 15, i am assuming you dont have a job so wine, dine, and romance is out of the question. take her hand, stroke her hair, look deep into her eyes and say it as genuine as you can...and try not to laugh, that could put a damper in the moment. but going back to my first thought; your too young. THERE's a lot more to love than words, there's responsibilities, obligations, attachments, and more drama than you've ever experiences in your not so long life. chew on that.

Answer 5

forget about the idea of saying it on "special" days of the year. Just express your love when you feel a strong connection, like when your alone in a beautiful place with a nice view and all of a sudden you realise that everything is perfect, right then if you could choose one moment that you'd want to spend eternity in, then say it, out of the blue (like after a long, peaceful silence during an extended embrace) when she'd never expect it.

That's the best time to do it. On an insignificant day, preferably between now and her birthday.

Answer 6

Well of course you shouldn't say it if you don't mean it!
Yeah, it would be romantic to say it on Valentine's Day and all, but only if you really mean it. That's important.
I would suggest saying it the day before Valentine's Day. That way you can celebrate the next day! And if things don't work out, it won't ruin the holiday for you.

Answer 7

Dont say you LOVE her so quick! I did when I was your age and it caused me a lot of hurt in the long run! If you all last a year or so then say it! I know right now it might feel like it'll last forever, but young women have a tendency to want to experience more men before they settle down! Peace

Answer 8

never, let her say it first... if you say it too soon she'll think your clingy, waiting is your best bet man, plus you might want to re-check on if you really love her, or if your blinded by how cool ya think she is. sometimes i think the word love is thrown around too much, and when she's gone you'll realize what love really is.... almost have to lose her and regain it in order to know what it truely means to love her. but you can hint if you want, start talking about love (in little doses), maybe make up a fake story about how your friend told a girl he loves her and you think it was too soon, see what she feels about saying that four letter word before ya go gettin all clingy on her. plus play hard to get when it comes to that cause then they'll be the clingy ones and never wanna leave you ever

Answer 9

firstly 14 and 15 are pretty young....however i was once that age so...in saying that i would say dont tell her until you mean it. saying it without meaning or just because thats what u think she wants to hear can only lead to turmoil down the road. ya kno?? that doesnt mean dont do nice things for v-day or her b-day its always good to show you care. but never say those words until your sure you absolutely, positively, cant live without her, head over heels in love.

Answer 10

You have to answer yourself two questions first, are you old enough to endure the emotional toture and second do you want to watch a 13 inch tv for the rest of your life or do you want to shop around and find a flatscreen with high def??

Answer 11

I think you should wait. Maybe if you're still together in a year or two maybe that would be the time. A lot of times when couples say I LOVE YOU too soon they break-up. You wouldn't want that would you?