So every time he leaves and i forget about him, but as soon as he comes back i'm right back where i started. I'm really sick of it. It's just he's so good looking and fun, i can seem to be able to say no to him...
2007-01-13 16:56:19 · 16 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep him as a **** buddy. Friends with benefits. No strings attached. Enjoy life!
2007-01-13 16:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by BongH2oBoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, put him behind you, he's onlly keeping you up set ? TRUST thre is alaways someone just as cute and fun as he is,And you'll find that person a whole lot better than him, Don't allow you self to be around this person, see them coming go the other way. It's time you took over your own life
2007-01-13 17:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by darlene g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of everything you hate about him, how bad he treated you and what really boils you about him. Keep the list in a easy access place then when he comes back read it and ask yourself "is he worth it again?" If the answer is NO {and it should be} then tell him "I like you but you are bad for me stay away I am not going out with you EVER again!" Then don't. Relationships are like plants if you do not water them they will die.
2007-01-13 17:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Roll_Tide! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are not really in a relationship. Moreso something casual.
Try to avoid the same places that this guy is in. Remove anything that reminds you of him. If that's not easy, tell him that you and him are through.
It might be worthwhile to take up some new hobbies or sports. Something to get you into a different space and a new group of people.
2007-01-13 17:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by gabrielbowers 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive heard it only takes another man to get over one! Just stop talking to him and ignore him and you will get over him. I know it is hard though when i was in high school i was with a guy for 4 months and then he broke up with me out of nowhere and i had to see him every day at school and it was SOO hard. I think i cried a few times when i saw him but i finally realized it wasnt worth it.
2007-01-13 17:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by amberlynn0607 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control of you. Become your own person. Get hobbies. Meet other people. Move on. You might always be a little weak around him, but with time and a concentrated effort, you'll have enough respect for yourself as a person to not give in.
2007-01-13 17:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by roentgenologist08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more details like is he a jerk Or is he a decent Guy WhY do you need to get over him?does he just get what he can then ya dont see him till the next time he comes around or what ?
2007-01-13 17:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy. Do something that you like. Never find
someone else to be in a relationship. This only covers over
your problem and will never go away until you are able to be
on your own first.
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2007-01-13 17:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok girl this sounds like me and my ex husband-hes what i call "the grass is always greener on the other side" kind of guy-you deserve way more than to be at his will-yes he may be fun-yes he may be good looking-but you know you can always find someone who has way more fun and is better looking and someone who wants to spend their time only with you-i know it is hard-trust me ive been there-u just have to realize your better than being his toy-let him come back around and find you gone and not waiting like you always have been-put him in his place
2007-01-13 17:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you stop seeing him ?? Best way to forget is start going out with other men
2007-01-13 17:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋