My mate was out at a b day party and, phoned me up to see if i wanted to go to a nightclub, which i said yes, as i was sitting bored anyway,plus my fiance was in bed as he started working at 6am, so he had to be up for 4.30am.
Anyway i said to my fiance that i was going out, for a while, but he was not happy about me going to this nightclub, as it has a reputation, supposed be a really bad place.
He said that he wasn't happy with me going, i said that my mates boyfriend will be sober, so he is going to keep an eye on us.
He was still not happy, so anyway i went and now he isn't really talking to me, went away to work, in a very annoyed mood with me.
Any advice guys in what i should do?? thanks for reading, oh general answers please. thanks again
2007-01-13 16:46:59 · 13 answers · asked by louise h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This was my first time out in ages guys, when i go out i normally go out with him to our local pub, not very often we get a night.
He was concerned of my safety, because of the nightclub.
2007-01-13 17:04:00 · update #1
I don't really like nightclubs either, but it was night out with my mate, i didn't go until 12am as i didn't get a phone call until 10.30pm from my mate asking, and by the time i waited on a taxi aswell, wasn't even drunk had two drinks and that was it, then time to come home again.
2007-01-13 17:12:15 · update #2
Just give it some time. When he's ready, he will come back to you. If not, then, you have your answer to move on with your life.
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2007-01-13 16:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm 24 years old and have been married for almost 5 years. I've found the best way to avoid that is to become more of a home-body when you get married. If you want to party, etc., do it before you enter marriage, because most husbands (yours-to-be is apparently one of them) don't want that chick that's doing shots on the bar as their wife. I know, you can go to bars without getting wild and slutty, but in a male's mind, that's what they believe is going on. So, either take him with you (and try not to get into a drunken bar drama fight with each other) or go to a small, local pub that isn't a packed raging nightclub and have a couple drinks with just girlfriends, or learn to be content with domestic life and settle down and opt to watch a movie instead, or something.
2007-01-13 16:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by imaliberal 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Send im a text, asking whats wrong with him, and why he is upset. From his reply you can take it from there. Guys are always like that, don't worry about it too much, im sure everything will be soon later, just speak to him and explain why you did what you did. Tell him how the night went - it maybe the fact that he wasn't there and the unknown, so give him a clear overview of what happened. Suggest doing something together next Saturday night, staying in as he has work at 6
2007-01-13 17:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, he expressed his concern for ur safety, thats all. when you went out, he naturally felt that u were completely disregarding his concern for you. Apology is the best way out. tell him that you appreciate his concern for u, as it shows his love for you. Tell him that u r really sory for hurting him.explain to him patiently that u will always be on ur own guard. but, i i were in your shoes, i would never attend that nightclub again. if u think u can do it, tell him that u would never attend that nightclub, unless you are accompanied by your partner. remember your friend came with her bf. maybe he too knows the reputation of the nightclub. explain everything to him patiently.all the best
2007-01-13 16:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say sorry, try sweet talk him out of it, (be nice and calm, think clearly about this) then forget about it and move on! (im sure he will) wish you luck! for your wedding and all, wenever that is! ( :
i think this is definitely a better option than going to an icky club anyways.
2007-01-13 16:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you better start realising as a couple you make joint decisions if you was unhappy with him doing something would he just ignore your feelings and do whatever he wanted??He might think she does this before you are married what will she be like after being wed!!!
2007-01-13 16:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by William H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is if you want to actually marry this man and keep him around you should be more considerate of his feelings. Try apologizing and never doing that again.
2007-01-13 16:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you're cheating on him with his boss at work. He will completely forget about you going to the nightclub.
2007-01-13 16:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bob S 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nightclubs are for idiots.
2007-01-13 17:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Bloggs 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well you knew he wasnt happy when you went. how would you feel if the boot was on the other foot? sorry, but you asked for this one.
2007-01-13 16:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋