Ok I am 14 years old and my girlfriend is 14 as well, I am a freshman and she is in 8th grade, we have been together for the past 8 months a few weeks ago she found out that her mom had cancer and now she broke up with me today. these past few months it seems as though she has fallin out of love with me she wants me to change back to the guy she first fell in love with now u may say well ur just a kid n u dont no wat love is and there will b others well rite now it doesnt seem like it and i use to think the same thing im 14 can i really b in love? but i am before her i had never cried now i cry like a little pussy i have cried in front of her several times, pathetic huh? what can i do to make things back to the way they were did we rush into things and now they r lost forever or wat? i am really confused and really like crap I love her but it seems like she dont love me and i just found out that she has been talking to another guy and i think she is dating him now wat is that about?
2007-01-13 16:46:01 · 11 answers · asked by kohl_hutchison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to step down. If you cant remember what you guys had in the beginning just go back to being her friend. At some point you'll realise that friendships never die. Sure she maybe dating some other guy but that may not last. If you love her you'll understand that she is experiencing some tough times. She may not even be ready for a relationship. However, if you want to cut all the dram just talk to her. Have a serious conversation and tell her you want to go back to being really good friends. Only time can pave a new path.
2007-01-13 16:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by blufiah_tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude when I was your age I was too eager to give my heart away also. I don't doubt that you feel you are in love, but trust me you will go through allot in life and you will fall in and out of love many times. This girl does not feel the same about you by the sounds of it and you can't blame her you guys are still very young. Trust me things are going to be fine for you and you should focus on living life having fun and enjoying everything you can. Make investments now and focus on school, its easy to think you need to experiance everything. There is so much out there and you have your whole life ahead of you, don't rush take your time man. If you don't you will look back and think of all the things you would have done different. Old dudes use to tell me that and I was like yeah what ever, but I found out it was too true. You will meet plenty of girls and one day that right one will come along. Don't get hung up on this girl there is too much out there and you will find what your looking for soon enough just be patient.
2007-01-13 17:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by allives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget her, and if that does not satisfy you beat up her new boyfriend in front of her, thats what i did, But I broke up with my ex. dont go love someone that doesnt love you back its not worth it. Always walk with your head up, and you cant do that if your crying over a girl that left you for no real reson other than that she doesnt really love you, not cause her mom had cancer. cause she found another guy. by the way you said you feel its real love eventhough your only 14 well buddy, hate to break it to you, but real love is 2 sided not 1.
2007-01-13 16:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by wise man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe finding out her mother's illness made her evaluate things in her life-not that im downplaying ur relationship but u two are in fact only 14 and when someone u love is diagnosed with a terminal illness it kind of makes you discover life is very short and precious-she may need to find herself and grown on her own-as the saying goes if you let something go and it comes back to you it was meant to be-give her time-i know it sucks but if you really feel about her the way you say u do u will support her thru this hard time
2007-01-13 16:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 01:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by roca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a good friend to her, she probably needs it right now and it will prove you really care. If you guys are meant to be, then it will happen. Don't obsess over it. Find other girls to talk to. You may just need a rebound to feel a little better.
2007-01-13 16:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14... theres plenty of other fish in the sea...
2007-01-13 16:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by invictusaflak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Kid....U need to get over it!! Your only 14 and there will be plenty of more girls......TRUST ME!! You haven't even reached your prime ....
2007-01-13 17:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Help a sister out 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak . . .
You were my eyes when I couldn't see,
You saw the best there was in me ~
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach,
You gave me faith 'cause you believed.
I'm everything I am because you loved me.
2007-01-13 16:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...14...all the drama...lol
2007-01-13 16:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋