Forget him...i went thru something simliar..he got a one night stand pregnant before we met. he didnt tell me until a year later...he wanted nothing to do with them. But I helped him come to terms w/it. He promised me nothing would change...but it did. he developed feelings for the mom. So he left me to be with her...a one night stand! Needless to say...they arent together, but i was hurt and felt used, but it took me6 months to realize he is not a good guy and i do feel he was still his very confused..he was cold and hurtful. Alot of things he did were uncalled for. Im sorry but ur boyfriend should draw the line. But I think he has lost ur trust, thats not how u want to live for the rest of ur life. u deserve better. Stop all communication with him. Be firm, have self respect, and stand up for urself.
2007-01-13 16:51:58
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answered by Anonymous
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wow, I am sorry to hear that u r going through this. I say this (remember my opinion is not necessarily ur medicine,ok) forgive yes but if u feel that they are going to be together and u r second choice then let it go and if he comes back to u then it is meant to be. Yes u love him but do u love him enough to lose who u really r. Believe me I was married for 8 yrs and now in a new relationship (not married) for 19 mths and I have went through situations too. I hope that this works out for you but evaluate the situation and asks ur self r u really happy or just there because u don't want to be alone. U have to answer that sweetie.
2007-01-13 16:50:23
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answered by in love 1
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you should always forgive. but that doesn't mean that you should be with the guy. he will always be tied to this other girl because they have a baby together. and if he's with you, and still seeing her on the side, you'd definately be better off without him in your life. trust me, there are great guys out there who would treat you right, and now may be the time to get yourself out there and start meeting some of them. you have to do what's best for you.
Best Wishes With Everything
2007-01-13 16:55:43
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answered by atiana 6
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well all i know is that you should keep cautious. yes you should forgive him but be aware that he msy go back to his ex becuz he feels closer becuz of the baby, etc. But if you think things are going to far then i say forget him and get yourself a man who doesnt leave his ex pregnant.
2007-01-13 16:47:28
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answered by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3
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its not easy for any one to end relationships but you need to move on .think of what kind of future you will have with him . Is that what you want ? Be strong and get someone you trust and loves you for real
2007-01-13 16:48:07
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answered by gooplic 3
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its all right to forgive someone but the hardest part is to learn to forget the pain and to regain the trust to the person who hurt us... it's hard on your part to undergo such pain.. maybe this time its much better to cool off.. you needed time for yourself to think of which place you put yourself... he has a kid and he has commitment to him but we always know he's ex???? you thnk first or you'll just end up being jealous and lonely.. i know you love him so much so thnk about it ... goodluck girl....
2007-01-13 16:50:41
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answered by precious_me 2
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i'm sorry for you. even though you feel such love for him you need to move on. if he is lying to you about the other girl he will just keep lying to you about other stuff. you need to gather all your strength and do your best to forget him. if he really loves you like you think he does he would not feel the need to lie to you about anything. be strong sister!
2007-01-13 16:49:57
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answered by Flowerchild 3
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Are you kidding me, this is the situation you want to be in? Get rid of the loser...
2007-01-13 16:46:09
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answered by Anonymous
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try to forgive him but if he is really nice and is serious about it then maybe u should not forget about him.
2007-01-13 16:45:30
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answered by casebuscher@sbcglobal.net 1
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forgive him because anger isn't healthy but move on.. i think you should try to forget him..
2007-01-13 16:45:37
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answered by terra 4
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