i hate my dad coz he dump us but he still take care of my bro education fund and my mom
i hate bro coz he got everything in the world that i don't have
i hate my mom coz after what my father did to us he can still go back to him
i hate to stay under the roof he and she paid for but eventually i pay the loan for a few years
i am only 21 soon to be 22
still working on the education fund
plan to go to college this year but not successful
i have been planing it since last year
i have been crying about it 3 night ago
i am being jelous
i have lost all my friend not relly i just don't want to call anyone of them to hang out if a few months ago i will if i am upset
i don't want to go out
i don't want to be around people
what happened to me
i find it hard to smile and laugh
i could barely talk to anyone not even my mom and bro my team mates msn chat
can someone help me
tell me what is wrong with me
2007-01-13 16:40:01 · 7 answers · asked by astrid 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
do i need professional help
i don't want to tak to my so called family about it
coz i am asian they won't understand
the kind of life i want to live
thanks in advance
2007-01-13 16:41:17 · update #1
It looks like you're going through depression. You need to see a doctor.
I can understand you're being upset with your family and jealous with your brother. I know it's not fair that girls don't have the same opportunity and attention as boys. They would push and support boys to be successful in life because they believe boys will eventually be the breadwinners. It's typical with Asian culture. Just remember - jealousy will eat you up. Love will keep you in peace. No matter what you think about your family, you will realize one day that you miss and love them when they're no longer around. If you need to be away from them - take a little break; go visit relatives or friends for the weekend. Take care of yourself, sweetie.
http://www.webmd.com/hw/depression/ty4643.asp
Depression is a mood disorder that causes a child or teen to feel sad or irritable for a long period of time. A young person who is depressed may not enjoy school, play, or friends and may have low energy and other symptoms. As with an adult, symptoms of depression range from mild to severe and vary from person to person. Depression can last for a long time and may come in cycles of feeling down and feeling normal. Chronic (ongoing) mild depression, called dysthymia, occurs when a child feels a little down most of the time for a year or more. Both severe and mild forms of depression can be effectively treated.
2007-01-13 17:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need your family. Everyone screws up, at least once. Think of why your dad did what he did, it may not seem that crazy. Also your mom did the right thing. Leaving him in the dust would have meant that she was not opened minded. She's stronger for taking him. Also, Your brother is a boy. Even though it isn't fair, parents, especially Dads, especially of the Asian descent, look for their boys to show their success. Its just easier for them sometimes.
You have to look outside yourself on this one. People must step back and realize that their is just more than what they have seen with their own self centered tunnel vision and understand more than just what they think effects them.
I am not saying that you are a bad person for feelilngs these things, you just need to look closer at them.
Support them in what ever they do. They will return this favor to you, it may take time, be patient.
Also, find hope in your own strengths.
You are a strong, emotional woman and that is great.
2007-01-13 16:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for all your troubles. You have a wonderful way of expressing yourself very clearly.
Absolutely ask for professional help. That's what professionals train for. If you had a broken arm, would you try to set it yourself? Of course not.
Best wishes.
2007-01-13 16:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
your probably a human being (homo sapien)
and the rest of your question
is too difficult to answer
2007-01-13 18:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dag girl you have to lighten up.You are deep.
2007-01-13 16:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go to a consulor dont give yourself a hard time.
2007-01-13 16:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens, I'll be praying for you.
2007-01-13 17:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋