me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 months and she dosent want to meet my parents. i brought it up to her and she refuses to talk about it. i love her and i dont want to break up with her but to go out on the weekends is getting ruff. i just got laid off of my job and i need to save up for a car cause i will be turning 18 in a few months. any help will be great
2007-01-13 16:30:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's probably just worried. Girls tend to overreact. have you told her anything about your parents, like how they feel about your past girlfriends, or if they are really strict. MAKE her talk to you about it, you should have good communication if you've been dating for three months. I met my boyfriends parents the week after we started dating, now its been 7 months. :) i love his parents to death. so just talk her through it, tell her normal things that they might do, you know. she'll be fine. usually.
2007-01-13 16:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by ranchgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she dosent want to meet your parents is because she is nervous that they may not like her and she might not know what to say in front of them.. or maybe she she has a insecurity problem.. just straight up and ask her why dosent she want to meet your parents.
Tell her you would like for her to meet then and that it would mean alot to you. That you really care for her and would like for her to meet your family. Maybe she might come around.
Best of luck!
2007-01-14 00:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't she want to meet them?? That's a pretty important step meeting the parents... Meet up with them in public.
2007-01-14 00:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might me scared but invite her over for dinner or something and tell her a time to be there then your parents come about 20 to 30 minutes later
2007-01-14 00:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise her with it. invite her over and tell her that you guys will be alone, and then make your parents stop by. that way she cant get out of it.
is she thinking long term if she doesnt want to meet your parents?
2007-01-14 00:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by cornercuttin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, there is no rush. She is not ready yet. If I were you, stay foucs of getting a job and go with the flow.
2007-01-14 00:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably afraid your parents wont like her. Try explaining to her that you're sure your parents will love her just as much as you do....and if they don't you don't care.
2007-01-14 00:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋