Does having sex hurt?

Question

I MEAN WOMAN DO YOU HURT AND BE IN PAIN AFTERWARDS? IS THERE A FEELING AFTERWARDS?

MEN HOW DO YALL FEEL? I MEAN ARE YALL COMFORTABLE WITH TAKING A GIRLS VIRGINITY? DO YOU JUST DO IT BECAUSE SHE IS A VIRGIN AND YOU LIKE THE FEELING OF A VIRGIN?


PEOPLE WORK WITH ME HERE.

DO YOU DO FOR PLAY FIRST? VIBRATORS ARE USED? KY JELLY BEING ON IT? DOES THAT EASE THE PAIN?

Answer 1

keep your pants on and your knees together. YOU will know when the time is right.

Answer 2

I can't speak for the men, but as a woman, I didn't think it was painful the first time. It was a bit uncomfortable, but as long as you relax, it's not painful. The more tense you are, the more painful it will be.

So definitely wait to have it with someone you really trust, and can completely relax, and not worry about it with.

After the first few times (Sometimes even after the first time), the uncomfortable feeling subsides, and then it's quite the pleasure.

Answer 3

hymens are highly over rated. It's practicaly no different tightness wise once it breaks, and it breaks as soon as you push in. It's really not that great, especially if you hve a large penis. I'd much rather be with a girl who is into it and enjoying it and not in fear or in pain. Sex is a LOT more fun when the girl is saying "harder, harder" instead of saying "ouch, wait, stop". there is sort of a novelty factor with taking a girls virginity which is kinda cool, but the sex isn't ever all that great

Answer 4

i really wonder why you are asking...anyway my first was a weird experince...i felt like it hurt but it was a good hurt cause it was soooooo something i wanted for my own reasons..i was and still am sexually selfish..if there's a paper in this at least let us know, otherwise you should sooooo wait untill you are truely ready. that's the only way it's worth it, and the emotional impact is not painful, and everything else is secondary to emotion..i think mind over matter is more than a theory

Answer 5

i know a lot of guys that wont have sex with a virgin, cuz virgins tend to get to attached with their first. Also there really isn't a difference between having sex with a girl virgin or having anal sex with a girl cuz they are both have a great feeling.
4-play definitely goes first.

Answer 6

once you're apprehensive or annoying approximately it hurting, then it is probable nonetheless going to injury. in keeping with threat too there could no longer be sufficient lubrication. attempt employing added lubrication like ky jelly or astroglide and see if that facilitates. it must be that little bit greater effective will help keep from pulling that's probable why it hurts.

Answer 7

It really helps for the girl to be mentally and physically in the mood otherwise one or both people will be in pain. Yes, a lubricant can help but breaking virginity is so painful and delicate. be careful.

Answer 8

the first few times might, if you know you are going to be doing it, I'd try using something to slightly loosen things up down there. Most importantly remember to relax down there, if you tense up it will hurt that much more, of course it also depends on the size of the guy. A friend of mine told me that her first time didnt even hurt because he was so small lol!

Answer 9

KY Jelly highly recommened for 1st timers.

We I first had sex with my wife I could only get the "head" in. We didn't have sex on the 1st night. When I go in her I can tell that she is tight, and even when she is wet it can feel cramped in there. Or is that just me?

Answer 10

My wife hurt a lot the first time. Still does a little 3 years later.

Answer 11

Yes it hurts. You are too young. Just drop the subject and live before you start getting serious. Life can be fun if you don't mess it up, and sex is a sure way to mess it up.

Anyone pressuring you is out to do you great harm.