i have been going out with this guy for about a month. before we started dating we used to chat online for hours. when we started going out at the beggining we would talk to eachother. before we started dating he told me that he liked one of my freinds but then he liked me and u know now were together well one day my friend that he liked was at my house and he was there..after that he hasnt been really talking to me and i dont know if its because he likes my freind again or if its just something guys do but i brought this topic up to him a few times and all he would say is " i dont know" or i would ask him what was wrong and he said "nothing" and i asked if he still wanted to go out with me and he said " yeah" but i dont know whats going on i still really like him but i dont want to break up with him but hes not talking to me or giving me answers so what should i do? i know its my choice on what i should do but tell me what you would do or what i should think about doing tips plz
2007-01-13 16:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First and foremost, you need to explain to him how much this issue is bothering you and that you would really appreciate it if he would talk to you about it. If he truly cares about you he will make an attempt to open up to you. And if not...I think you have some serious thinking to do. If it is really obvious I would drop him like hes hot!
2007-01-13 16:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he isn't very sure about what he wants from your relationship and where he wants it to go. I would give him a little bit of time, but when you get to the point where you must do something, talk to him about it. Not just asking him stuff, tell him how you feel about what is going on and why you feel that way. Tell him that you want him to be happy because you care about him and that if he wants to continue things with you then he needs to say so.
2007-01-14 00:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are wierd. Just give him awhile and if he still acts this way then say what your thinking about. That you know that something is wrong and if he wont' tell you then you are going to have to make a decision about it. And tell him if there is something wrong and just don't wanna talk about its ok i just want to know that we are or something like that. thats what i would do anyways
2007-01-14 00:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by whatdoesitmatter05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. ok. this sounds exactly what i went through. i sat my bf down and said "hey ive been noticing that youve been different lately. and if somethings wrong, then you need to tell me because if you like (your friends name) then go out with her not me. i dont want to be the one thats making you unhappy. so if you cant tell me the truth, than i guess we arnt close enough or just cant trust each other or be honest, so then i think it'd be better if we saw other people" so see what he says to that! lol. i wish you thee best of luck!
2007-01-14 00:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it..move on your young he is indecisive and also if he does stay with you in the back of your mind you will always wonder ...is he thinking about her?? and that will torture you and make you hate them both...so i say find someone who knows he wants to be with you, otherwise your wasting your self on a person who doesn't want to really be with you who is settling perhaps till he gets what he wants..break up with him buy a pretty dress, and go out!~
2007-01-14 00:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by weezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that this friend that you mentioned earlier has been talking to this guy.You should ask him or her if this is so. Thing's going on behind your back can really hurt if you don't find out quick.
2007-01-14 00:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by tieditup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with your self, he like you but he also
into the the other friend as well. time to move on. he not
worth all the drama. find some one that want you and only
you. dont be second best to anyone.
2007-01-14 00:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatley if hes not talking to u. ur relationship is basically going down the drain. communication is key. he doesnt deserve u.
2007-01-14 00:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by fashionforward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋