I need Girl Help?

Question

Girls i need help on how to get a gf. i dont really have a girl i like but but want to be able to tlel if a girl likes me. and wat attracts girls the most. im 16 by the way. my 2 best friends both have gf's and i feel so awkward hanging out with all of them because i just sit there when they are kissing and stuff and i hate it. please any help would be apprciated greatly. thanks

Answer 1

If you ask me - you seem to be a very level headed young man.
If your friends spend their time kissing while they are hanging out with you- that's just rude.

Anyway - here's the thing. Girls like gentlemen. They like to be complimented, they like to be treated gently - to be paid attention to but not to the extreme. They want you to listen to them. They love it when you make eye contact and they love to see you smile and display your sense of humour.

You will know if a girl likes you if they are walking past you - you make eye contact and they smile with maybe a little shrug of their shoulder. But don't jump on her automatically if the girl you are interested in does that. Just take it slow. Talk to her another time - at lunch or whatever. A couple days later, ask her if you can sit with her at lunch, buy her a pop or coffee. Then take it from there.
You'll do fine, just don't act like your friends are acting and keep the kissing in private. - Trust me - no one else wants to see your friends swapping spit either.

Answer 2

Girls aren't trophies to hold at your side just because your other buddies has a girl. Maybe there is something about your personality that is unattractive to the girls that you are around.
Be yourself and if you feel awkward around your best friends when their girlfriends are around then go somewhere else!
I don't mean to be rude, but do you have a job? Because that may help you out in the girl department if you have an income you can take a girl out to dinner or a movie and be able to buy her little gifts or flowers.
Take care of your life before trying to think about coupling up...you have your whole life ahead of you to find that special someone, so don't rush it cause that makes you look desperate and that is a turn off.

Answer 3

its gonna be okay! i am currently in ur shoes! i feel like i will be laughing and looking at the both of them and then WHAM they will be kissing eachother and caressing and i just think its so awkward and personal that i look away like an idiot. i want help on a getting a bf, but i dont need one i guess. Girls can be rreally weird like sometimes if i like i guy i can barely even looking at him or a just shuffle by him all baffled, but other times i just cant keep my eyes off! I say find a girl that appeals to you and you know doesnt have a bf(i made that mistake with a guy once, oh ouch i will never forget it) I really like shy guys, but they must have enough confidence to equally participate in conversation. Hygeine is well obvious..wear some really good smelling but subtle cologne..i like it when guys where their sportswear and then the next day it will be a really sexy sweater..a smiling guy is attractive. if a girl likes you she will blush and her voice might be a little shakey or sort of different around you ( like a little more precise) if u make eye contact with a girl just loosen up your features so ur bit lighter and open to conversation, shyly smile. Do cute things like compliments and looking at like a girls hair for a while and then when she notices, say your hair is beautful today, hold the door for her. ask her about herself try to get to know a girl. sorry if im not that helpful, but i am equally confused with guys. im 15, so i can relate even more. lol yeah IM me if ya want
laytahz

Answer 4

Hey pal, there is no time limit on finding a girl. There is something to check out---are you date material? Better take a look at yourself...maybe you need to cut and wash your hair, brush your teeth, get some better threads and think about your conversation skills---be nice. smile, be the guy that the girls want to meet and date. why hang with the guys on a date? Find something else to do or go somewhere to meet new people. And remember that hugs and kisses are for private time---not all over in front of people---that's just plain childish and disrespectful. You will find a girl when the time is right--so go get ready--clean up your act. Welcome to the real world---we all went through this.....go get them tiger

Answer 5

the good news is that different people are attracted to different things so no matter how butt ugly u may be u can almost certainly find someone that will be attracted to you anyway. as for finding a girlfriend that is easy.

if you are that desperate to get a girlfriend all you really have to do is lower your standards right down. i'm talking low, like to the point of having no standards at all. it's just that easy. if you are willing to take on any slapper that walks through you door then you will be making out with someone like your friends are in no time!!

good luck my friend

Answer 6

Ask your "Guy" friends,to ask their "Girlfriends",do they know someone,who would be a perfect match for you. If you've been hanging out with them a lot,then chances are,that the females have notices your "style" (what you like to do,and what you don't). Believe me,they've noticed!. Girls don't miss anything!. Once your friends have asked,then more than likely,they'll be "hookin you up",with someone soon. In the meantime,try asking one of your classmates out on date. A female you may see as a "Good Friend",may be just the person your looking for!.

Answer 7

Look, if your trying to rush things then it will NEVER work out. The acword feeling with your friends? Get up and go if you don't want action. Have friends that are girls? Hang out with them. Be yourself. THATS what makes a girl like you. Of corse, if you were colone, stop. Most girls HATE the smell of it. If you have the spay axe. Don't use it, it smells horrible. If you want a girl to come near you then don't chase her away with bad smells. Yes, that does include brushing your teeth. Wait for the time to come. And while your waiting, do things that you like. Do sports, join the choir, learn to dance. Its important for you to be open-minded to. You can't care what religon. For more tips, I don't agree with some, go to: http://www.wikihow.com\

Answer 8

im here for ya man, been there done that. just gotta be yourself. nice, not rude, flirty is real good, dress nicly, you've heard it all before but ya gotta get out there and get in the game. dont push things though man, one will come to you when you least expect it. every girl wants something different, theres no girl thats the exact same which is what makes it so hard, take things slow, try to figure out what the girl in question wants and try and give it to her if your willing, but i wouldnt go toooo far out of your way to please her cause A she might think your too clingy,(which is bad), and B your friends will think your retarded, and of course C there are a million girls out there so wait for one who wont try and make you her ***** cause that just isnt worth it. hey man "takeiteasy830" is my aol sn, i'd be happy to help ya more if you feel like IMing me

Answer 9

okay, well...its not really something you should be ashamed and embarassed about, because that means you are only looking for a girl to show. but if you really like someone, that probably should be used to hanging with you, then try asking her out. but you have to be nice, and dont be mean because that really turns people off. so give it time and see what happens. but try not to let it bug you.

Answer 10

Its hard when that happens, but sometimes its just no one there right at the moment that you like and likes you back... But you can tell if a girl acts by the way they look at you... and they can tell you look them in the eyes and ask them out... good luck with that one though...