My girlfreind of 2 months recently broke up with me. In the beggining she liked me alot and i didnt as much. But as we got to know each other I started to like her more and more and she did less and less. Her freind told me that she broke up with me becasue I wasnt like showing enougth affection in the begging and she was like upset y. I apologized numerous times but she says she just wants to be friends. So like 2 weeks go bye and i aske her to hang out just as friends and she said that she was busy. I still really like her and care about her and will do anythin to get her back. . And i already said that I really care about her and nothing going through. I wish I can go back in time and do all things I didnt do .I miss her so much and cant stoip thinking about her. Is there any possiblity I can get her back. And if so what should I do. i was thinking about like something for valentine's day but i dont want to come across as needy and scare her away.
2007-01-13 16:23:22 · 9 answers · asked by babyv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont try...let her go...if she comes back you will know...but dont push it. Sometimes people need time to realize they truly miss and care about someone. If its mean to be it will happen. You told her what you needed to tell her, there is nothing more u can do. Just let it be.
2007-01-13 16:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dude. You were only a challenge to her in the beginning. Once you started showing interest, hers faded. There's no solution other than to move on. You've already made your feelings clear. The best thing that can happen is to find another girl and let her see you with her. She may or may not come back, but at least you'll have satisfaction. DO NOT stand outside her window like the women above who answered are saying. If you're going to read anything, read here: http://ca.askmen.com/dating/doclove_300/347_relationship_expert.html
now don't go butt kissin anymore!
2007-01-14 00:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this might not help but if you buy her flowers and chocolate and go stand out side her house door and start signing a love song or a song she really likes and you tell her everything you just said in you post then she would be crazy to say she doesnt want you
2007-01-14 00:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Abaloon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in her hands now. Just let her know that you still care about her, don't over do it. Just a letter or flowers, and then leave it up to her. These things take time...patience pays off.
2007-01-14 00:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by cazza4487 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read _The Dance of Intimacy_ or _the Way of the Superior Man_
2007-01-14 00:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just keep trying to show her that u love her and try to go out with a girl and try to make her jealous and if that doesnt work just try to or instead u can just stay friends with her until she wants to be more than a friend. and good luck with her man
2007-01-14 00:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by john john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go down on her show her your skills! Send her flowers, suprise her with a balloon and candy and a teddy bear....show her some dam affection!
2007-01-14 00:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing a game that's as old as time. let her drive. seems like she knows what she's doing.
2007-01-14 00:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to share with you this line:
IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE SET HIM/HER FREE!!! IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU, THEN THE TWO OF YOU ARE MEANT TO BE!!! IF IT CONTINOUS TO FLY, LET IT SOAR! ALWAYS KNOW THAT GOD HAS BETTER IN STORE!!!
*Hop you'll reflect! Godbless.....
2007-01-14 00:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by precious_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋