There's this girl in my lunch period. I know she likes me, so the one time I tried to ask her out, she said she was gay. I don't really think she is because she likes me. What should I do? Should I leave a note for her and tell her I love her? Or should I ask her again?
2007-01-13 16:23:15 · 9 answers · asked by Steve C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably told u shes gay maybe she was nervious cuase she likes u or shocked and just didnt know wat to say u should just try talking to her first dont just drop all this news on her that u love her and want to go out just slowly move in
good luck!
2007-01-13 16:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by *hot_chick* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would she say she is gay if she likes you? If I was in your position, I'd let her know that you care about her but don't pressure her or over do it. Leave her a note like you said, something simple. Then it's up to her.
2007-01-14 00:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by cazza4487 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont come to an conclusion so soon, try to find out from her close friends, & try to keep a eye on her movement, like if she is acting like normal females or like gay, if possible or i feel your idea is also right, try to speak to her frankly... there are only two option that she will react, she will say YES or NO... ( But i feel you should be prepared for both the answer)
2007-01-14 00:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by Richa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying the girl likes you doesn't mean it is true. Here try this:
say: "I have a million dollars".
Do you have a million dollars?
She is most likely saying it to avoid you... and please... NEVER leave a note to a girl saying you love her. First off, (I assume you are in middle/highschool) she has something to hold over your head/spread around school. Second off, it makes you look very bad considering you are telling a girl who doesn't like you that you love her... kinda desperate.
2007-01-14 00:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by tobiasmhunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she liked you she would not have told you she was gay. She's either gay for real, or she's lying to avoid telling you she is not interested in dating you. Either way, time to move on.
2007-01-14 00:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she likes you? Has she told you? Or are you just guessing? If she told you she is gay she may be or maybe she just told you to get you to leave her alone. She's just not that into you.
2007-01-14 00:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by SoapFan1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl say's that she is gay then you should tell her that you can respect that and that you would still be her friend.Who know's she might just be trying to see what your reaction would be. Good luck.
2007-01-14 00:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by tieditup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, but the girl doesnt like you. please dont tell her you love her otherwise you will regret it even more when she's laughing about you w/ her friends somewhere. move on to the next chick or you'll look desperate.
2007-01-14 00:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes lying, she doesnt like you.
Sorry but your better off getting over it
2007-01-14 00:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Krystle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋