i've been w/ a guy on and off for almost 6 yrs. recent prob is that lately ever since he got a new car... he has been hanging out w/ his friends a lot more. i don't have a prob with him hanging out... but the thing with him is that once he feels like he got all his friends back... he starts to not focus on this relationship. lets say when his friends ditches him for their gf... he would hang out w/ me and focus on me. but if his friend calls him to hang out more he wouldn't care about the relationship. what i mean is that if we have an argument (when he has friends to hang out w/) he wouldn't even care about the argument. when he does NOT have friends to hang w/ he would care and call me back to work things out. the 2nd prob is that when i confront him about it he started getting mad b/c to him i'm "accusing" him of things but he has history of doing this to me. he comes to me if his friends ditches him for other friends or their gf. do you think this guy cares?
2007-01-13 16:09:20 · 2 answers · asked by dorkydork 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he also acts slightly different around his friends when i'm there too. i understand that it's messed up to the friends if we act all lovey dovey because the world doesn't evolve around us, but i would prefer him acting more "natural." also, when his friends arent around, when i break up he would care so much and try his hardest to work things out so me and him won't break up. but now that he got his friends back due to him having a nice car... he didn't care when i broke up. also, he does NOT have even one small picutre of us or me in his room after so long being together. just recently he put a small sticker picutre of us in his wallet and "lost" it also. he buys me things pretty expensive like a couple bills... but the mentality of him and friends don't seem normal. he goes up the mountains with his friends but never takes me when he KNOWS that i love natural landscapes. thank you... i'm very hurt so just rantin
2007-01-13 16:14:53 · update #1
well ur answer are rt within ur question and seems like u feel that u do get a backseat so if u feel that way then get out
2007-01-13 16:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like he care more about what his friend thinks then he
does about this realtionship. and that will be a problem down the
road, time to talk to him about how this make you feel. and if things dont change time to move on. it all about respect. he not
showing or giving you yours.
2007-01-14 00:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋