My boyfriend an I have been going out for 2 weeks. We started talking 7 months ago. I just never wanted a boyfriend. Well we started talking about doing " stuff "[[not just kissing]] and we were excited about it. We were going to do it when I came back from vacation [[ since i have been gone. ]] Now Im home and I told him last night Dont you think were going a little to fast? He told me today, " Theres nothing to be excited about anymore " [[ Since I said that I wasnt sure if were were going to do anything most likely no ]]And I told him your going to see me! He was like, Well yahh im excited about that too. Well then I told him I could care less if we did anything or not I just want to see you. Then he said You dont care about anything!! Then I got pissed and hung up.
Did everything turn from LOVE to LUST?
2007-01-13 16:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There was no love. 2 weeks right? he just was excited about having s e x! if you rush into it, you may find that nothing more may come of your "relationship".jmo.
2007-01-13 16:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy really does care about you and your feelings,he would respect you enough to wait untill you are ready for the next step in the relationship.Don't sell yourself short.If he can't wait then he dose'nt care about you for you he is after only one thing and only thinking about his own needs.(Lust).From a guy that really cares.
2007-01-14 00:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by tieditup 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it sounded like love at first. If the guy really cared about you, he wouldn't put a timetable on your intimate part of the relationship. You deserve to be treated so much better than that.
2007-01-14 00:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never was really love, it was lust, and maybe it better that
you found out before you did something that you would have
regret down the road. take time to get to know the person'
you were not with him long enough. dont rush it.
2007-01-14 00:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its definetly lust, if u 2 get in a lil argument about doin sexual stuff together and get mad that its not gonna happen then yea thats not love, all lust, if it was love he would respect ur choices
2007-01-14 00:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋