ok. theres this girl (which is smokin hot by the way!) that used to be in love with me, and i liked her but i liked another girl at the time and asked her out (even though i shouldnt have). now, about a year later she's started talkin to me again out of the blue. but she has a bf. you guys know what myspace is right? well yeah, she sent me a comment and was like heyyy i havnt talked to you in forever what have you been up to blah blah well comment back luv ya bye. so i commented her back saying we need to hang out and then she replied saying that her bf and her just broke up "TODAY!"... then later adds that shes dating this "really sweet guy named cory". but, I want to date her now so the question is how should i respond to this while keeping it along the lines of cocky funny? the goal here to to create attraction!! my bud said i should write back and say something like "damnit, why arnt you dating me?" or "why are you settling for these losers you should date me". but idk... HELP!!!
2007-01-13 15:52:22 · 3 answers · asked by Boomer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. i never dated this girl... i broke her heart so to say. but were not gettin back together again because we never took our chance dating to begin with.
2007-01-13 16:14:33 · update #1
OK, I know all about this. I've got a PhD in it. And I can tell you right now that anything you do with this girl is a waste of time. She USED to be in love with you. First of all, women don't change their minds after they really fall out of love with you. She's trying to satisfy her ego that she can have you back. Secondly, she's on the rebound. She broke up with her boyfriend. What more evidence do you need that she's after you to build up her ego? She's trying to not seem desperate by mentioning that other guy.
Now that you see right through her selfish sociopathic mind games, be polite but don't make any move whatsoever. She's liable to get desperate if she can't find anyone else, but it is imperative that you avoid dating her again. One chance per woman per lifetime! If you get back with an ex, you have a serious risk of losing their respect. Put your foot down and be a man! I know she's hot, but she's going to hurt you if you date her again. Some women, especially the hot ones, cannot stand the thought of being alone. She wants to get with ANYONE she can.
Good luck!
OK, the situation is slightly different now. You still shouldn't date her, because she's on the rebound. But if you rejected her before because you weren't single, and she knows that you had a gf, it's OK for you to give her a try. If you rejected her before because you didn't like her and she knows that, then you might have a girl on your hands who just wants to reassure herself that she's good enough for you. Proceed with caution. FLIRT! And wait a while before you ask her out if you are going to ask her out. Good luck!
2007-01-13 16:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the damnit, why aren't you dating me...fun and impossible to get offended by that. Even if "cory" should happen to read it.
2007-01-13 23:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm it depends do u want 2 b straght foward or not? mayb shes sayin that 2 get ur attention.... unless u hav seen her wit this guy! id say u wanna b straght foward go with wat ur frien said id say its funny lol but im like that.. mayb she isnt! best of luck! :)
2007-01-14 00:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by total_coolness102 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋