I Have this one guy that i like.. i guess he already knew...When i think about what I did for him...It's very shameful. First, he trys to show me that he's interested, but then I found out that he was trying to play around with me. He never liked me. For all the things I've done for him and then noticing that I have fallen into his trap. I feel like a loser and that all my dignity and pride is gone!!! what can i do to bring back my dignity and pride...and win over my loss....I DON't want to look like a loser!!!! I am a girl so I don't want him to think I'm tripping over him whereby he doesn't see my worth, and then he gets a level up in his ego. believing tat he's very attractive..
2007-01-13 15:39:17 · 13 answers · asked by Teddi G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, you made a mistake, and bent over backwards for this idiot, and he walked all over you. You are not the first to have had this happen, nor will you be the last. First and foremost, don't let him have the upper hand anymore. Move on, show him that he cannot bring you down, and hold your head high, as you find a new guy to flirt with, or whatever. Best of Luck to you!
2007-01-13 15:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa---slow down---the best thing is you admit you learned a lesson---a big one at that. That shows maturity and you can pull yourself up over it. Forget about it...and him. You got away from an abusive creep---that's important to know. Lots of guys and girls get mixed up with people who can make them feel the way you do. Start each day with a bright outlook---walk confidently---you did not commit a crime---be proud and work hard in school or whatever it is you do. You are an individual with a lot to offer---so get out there and start doing whatever it is you do. FORGET it happened and don't beat yourself up over it. And stop thinking you have to do anymore about this guy. You are not a loser---never will you be a loser---you shine brighter than this guy ever will. Just get going and move on---smile, meet some new friends, join some clubs and put your best foot forward. Have a great life, kiddo
2007-01-13 23:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if somebody is playing games with you then you are better off without him or her
the dignity and pride thing has to come from yourself, not from anybody else, other people can be nice and give you some band aids, you have to heal yourself though.
If and when we lose only dignity or pride, just get up and brush yourself off, and try again, its all we can really do. The only option I think.
Ego games like what you describe are worse than useless, anyone who feels better about themselves by hurting other people is really really sick and not somebody to be friends with. If suspect somebody of that, be sure to clarify whats really happening before accusing.
2007-01-13 23:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't dwell on whatever you did for him dear. You would not BELIEVE some of the STUPID things I've done or said to a man!Hey girl.. you gotta look in the mirror and like what you see!
Smile! Enjoy life! Count your blessings you didn't get deeper with this guy. Good luck.
2007-01-13 23:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
dump that bastard
why hanbg around?
you have no self esteem if you do
time away from him will allow you to refocus on yourself
to build self love and self pride
and next time
have your standards.. and your filters
use them to "sort" the right guy for you
I hate to say this but you did this to yourself
at one point you KNEW he was thew wrong guy for you
but you foolish self false pride got in the way.. and you said to yourself
...i can change him if i.....
and you can NEVER change a guy
NEVER
he will change when he wants to
and see it's time for change
avoid dating boys
real men do not play games
neither should you
be honest and stright fowards
but not too frank
2007-01-13 23:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spread it around that he has an STD.... or you could flirt with him online as a different ID from your own and send him to an area and have some guys kick the crap outta him. But he must have had more of an effect on you then you let on if you want revenge...Why be so petty ?? I mean life is short.. if you need to talk contact me. We can chat and stuff...if you need someone to talk too.
2007-01-13 23:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser! Use this as a lesson learned! You are now smarter than you were before.
2007-01-13 23:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by passion for art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back out gracefully and with class. Take all he throws at you with dignity.
2007-01-13 23:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree continue to hold your head up high and ignore him. Nothing is worse than ignoring someone who thinks they have you. That will show him. Good luck.
2007-01-13 23:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by blkndn64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don'y worry so much about it,everybody plays the fool sometimes,he'll have his day. and next time don;t be so easy ,guys really don't like easy
2007-01-13 23:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋