My boyfriend just doesnt get it. I really want him to understand how i feel about something and i always end up saying "i need time to think about things" or "Maybe we shouldnt be dating" and these things still dont work and i get no reaction from him, nothing. i feel like the only thing left to do is actually leave him yet i dont know if this is the right idea i am scared i dont know what to do please help.
2007-01-13 15:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by Lynne. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Myabe you should leave him for a while. You know what they say, "If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it's yours."
2007-01-13 15:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit him down for a serious conversation, talk to him about the things that you find upsetting, tell him that you need some reaction from him, if he doesnt want to do this then you really need to move on.
2007-01-13 15:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by reshadow31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't tell he something then why are you dating him. Love is built on a trust! So maybe you two should call it splitsvillie. You could break up with him by doing on of these things...............
1) pass him a note in class telling him you think it's best for you two to stop seeing each other
2) If your brave then you can tell him in person.That it's not working out.
DON"T BE SCARED OF HIM!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck and best wishs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 15:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those things don't work because you have said them to many times and he knows you don't mean it. Tell him all your feelings and don't hold anything back be completely honest with him, no games, that's the only way you are going to get honesty from him.
2007-01-13 15:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the question and remember that he doesn't have to answer. It's his right. You should not decide whether or not to leave someone because he won't answer your question. If you love him......stay. If you don't.......leave.
2007-01-13 15:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by hotzpowerwash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont scream at him, but dont hint at things either. tell him straight out. guys dont respond to girls hitning around so they are forced to ask questions. they need to be told, talked to.
2007-01-13 15:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE TALK TO HIM THEN THE ONLY THING YOU CAN
DO IS LET HIM GO. SOMETIME YOUR ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS.
2007-01-13 15:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him.
2007-01-13 15:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋