Well it started last year, me and this guy had to sit with each other all semester. we got alone great, then after 2 weeks being in the class the teacher started to comment to us about going out. Soon the whole class started to talk about it every single day, and when they did I noticed he would blush so badly he was the color of a dark red brick ( and so was I of coarse). Well the end of the semester came and while we still did flirt with each other profusely we never hooked up. Well, we started a new school year (I had thought of him all summer) and well we never talked and We ran into each other (sometimes literally). Over time I noticed when we would pass each other in the halls we would glance at each other momentarily and when we actuallly noticed we were watching each other we would drop our glances hurriedly. And still we do the same. I need some help! What should I do? (and hopefully no one from school notices this)
2007-01-13 15:30:55 · 11 answers · asked by HeArTbRoKeN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him! If a teacher notices there is definitely an outward connection. Make a point to talk...you'll never know till you try. And as some dead guy said- Never, never, never give up. Good luck! -Alyssa
2007-01-13 15:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since he sounds shy, you have to make the first move if you ever want to get anywhere with this guy. I mean if it's already around the whole school ..then whats the harm of going up to him and saying " Hey this weekend I was thinking of going to the( movie s or bowling or something ) ...would you care to go with me..? If he says no then just move on. I mean life is too short for little games.
2007-01-13 23:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world----millions go through this stuff---it is school and that's what you should concentrate on--your future depends on it. Meet this guy outside of school and make your stance clear---while we are in school--be nice, smile--say hi and just keep moving. You can't avoid each other so why be uncomfortable. In a few short years, school will be over and maybe you can date. This is a maturity issue, so grow up and just keep it on the cool friendly side.Ignore what others say--you don't need to react to anyone who makes a comment---it just urges them on. Be the girl who walks confidently and knows how to handle herself. Keep your dating life to yourself and separate from school. That's a fact. Good luck and have a great life.
2007-01-13 23:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you run into him next, ask him if he wants to grab a coffee after class with you. Gauge his response. If he says yes right away, then he's into you, and if he pauses before answering, he's either shocked you asked him, or not interested at all (should be easy for you to tell the difference). I hope things work out for the better for you!
2007-01-13 23:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is pretty clear that you both like each other so talk to him as alyssa_06 said if the teacher noticed then there has to be something there to work with and grow
2007-01-13 23:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by megan p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WALK BY HIM AND GIVE HIM A NOTE STATING THAT YOU DO LIKE HIM AND YOU HOPE HE FEELS THE SAME AND MEET AFTER SCHOOL AWAY FROM YOUR FRIENDS AND JUST TALK TO EACH OTHER AND IF YOU GET TEASED BY YOUR FRIENDS LET HIM TELL THEM TO BACK OFF
2007-01-13 23:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him again, especially if you can email or text him. If you really like him, you could just ask him out.
2007-01-13 23:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just ask him out. it is kinda obviously that he likes you. but being real here if you wanna date him go ahead but do not wait too long or you will probably regret it later.
just ask him out. good luck!!!
2007-01-13 23:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! if you wait until it is too late, you may never know whether or not it was meant too be. i mean, the worst that he can do is say no, right?
2007-01-13 23:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Dara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are stupid...you guys are spinless...thts the point...the whole school sees it....how in the hell are you all ever gonna get together if you don't grow balls....well it looks to me he don't have any....so do you want a man with no balls....either you do or you don't.;....so go after him if you really want him....because it looks to me that he lacks courage...maybe you need to build some backbone in that man...it can be done.....show us what you got....let us know if you asked him out or not....or like the girl said above...its school......*** them all....worry about your work......they will all be fat and bald in 10 years or so....hahhahaha
2007-01-13 23:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋