After a great date and hanging out at a bar, what is the amount of days w/out a call that women lose interest in a guy? Are many expected to call everyday/every other day when things are going pretty good.
2007-01-13 15:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by Magician 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really like her and you feel she likes you and everythings going well, call her everyday
2007-01-13 15:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by ishybug03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a great date, why WOULDN'T you call her the next day? Do what feels right for you. Many men play the "numbers" game, which is a huge turn off in itself. Women hate the numbers game and will know you are playing it if you wait to call. So, if you like her and want to continue to see her, then CALL HER! The next time you talk to her, ask her if you can call her tomorrow - she'll let you know in no uncertain terms what she expects!
2007-01-13 23:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If everything went awesome on a date and the guy didn't call after a week, I'd start to loose interest or assume that he did. Calling every day is over-board... every other day is a bit too, remember you want to keep the other person interested, not irritated.
2007-01-13 23:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by tommygirl86711 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol! The night that I met my husband we had a great time! I gave him my number and waited for days for him to call. I thought that he either lost my number or was just playing me.
Apparently there is an "industry standard" that men live by wherein you have to wait three days to call a girl.
Personally, I think it is crap. If you like her and feel like talking to her then call her. If you are worried about calling to much then let her call you the next time.
Girls are pretty good at letting you know how often they would like to talk to you on the phone. I wouldn't get too worried about it.
2007-01-13 23:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't say call her everyday as you have to give her time to miss you. After the date I would call her just to see if you made it home safely and then maybe call her every other day until you guys gets serious.
2007-01-13 23:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Busgy Lanksy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't call the next day and tell that person it was great then you are in TROUBLE big time, keep it short and to the point but let them know it was good and if it was that great for both of you go for it again.2 days is all most people will wait
2007-01-13 23:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first not that ofeten, not every day, but every other, she may say something about calling her more often, or she may even call you. When things get even more interesting then definitely a daily phone call.
2007-01-13 23:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call within a week. Its not important to call everyday until the friendship has moved into a more serious phase. Good luck to you.
2007-01-13 23:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are interested in the relationship you should call within a day or two, or it will seem you dont care.
2007-01-13 23:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do, is wait a day, make her wonder if your intrested, maybe a day and a half, let her wait for a bit. if your actully in a relationship, then id call at least once a day... but until its that serious, try every other day.
2007-01-13 23:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by xbilbiex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To seem aloof you should call after 3 days..if you call after a month she has moved on
2007-01-13 23:25:36 · answer #11 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋