Me and my Ex-boyfriend just kinda got back together again. But I told him that I want to be friends and that I wanted to take things slow before we rush into things again. He says he still love me with all his heart. But I don't want to commit because I fell like I'm not able to enjoy other guys. He has some jealousy issues and he has a really bad temper and we argue a lot which leads to sex. I love him too but I don't. I just want to have fun and date as many boys as I can. What should I do? I don't want to hurt him.
2007-01-13 15:07:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u luv him, thenbe wit him and try 2 work out the issues ya'll have. if u wanna have fun wit other men, thenleave him alone. friends wit benefits can work if u 2 r mature enuff 2 handle that. meaning, can u handle himwit other women, can u handle him not being at your beck and call all the time, can u handle falling 4 another man who might see u as a friend wit benefits, can u handle your ex falling 4another woman and wanting 2 leave u alone. u need 2 ask yourself them questions, real talk. also i see u said boys, not men, r u old enuff 2 understand the friends wit benefits situation. keep in mind, i'm a grown man explaining this 2 u who knows the pains, gains, and games of the friends wit benefits situation. be careful wit your heart, health, and body.
2007-01-13 15:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by da realest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar spot not to long ago, I dated a guy off and on for 6 years and once I kicked him to the curb, it was all about him wanting to have the whole friends with benefits thing, it's not a good thing at all!! if he has a temper, just cut him lose and get rid of all his things! I shipped everything of my ex's to him and once I did that I was able to move on and begin dating again. Good luck
2007-01-13 15:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him what you are all about, that you'd rather sleep with as many men as you can and get pregnant, never know who the father is, and get all kinds of sexually transmitted diseases. That should cure him from wanting to be with you.
2007-01-13 15:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your relationship sounds very toxic. Cut him loose for good and find someone worthy of your time and attention.
2007-01-13 15:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! This is definitely a recipe for disaster!
2016-05-23 22:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its actually very fatal.
2007-01-13 15:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by A.P. P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋