He said we are just suppose to be friends, but yet everyone knows us as boyfriend and girlfriend, plus he gets very aggitated with my daughter. We have a pretty good relationship but he has never said that, and says he wont because of prior marriages
2007-01-13 14:56:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said you are friends...everyone else is dictating what they "think" your relationship should be...he can't say it if he doesn't mean it.
2007-01-13 15:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is A huge Problem in A RelationShip. You Need To Move On. Darling Men Were Put On This Earth To Kiss The Ground Woman Walk on. Im Sure You Can Find Someone Who Is Willing to At Least Tell You he loves You. Or He Could Just be To Distracted by Your Beauty To Say It..Lol ForGet Bout him :D
Luck Much â¥
2007-01-13 23:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by daniielle..♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he doesn't say it because he doesn't love you.
If he gets aggitated with your daughter, does not make an effort to be patient and spend time with her, then he's not in the relationship for progress. He's in it because it's convenient and sustains his needs for the moment.
Why are you wasting your time with a man who won't even make a committment to be your boyfriend after 6 years if you want more?
2007-01-13 23:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there you go. You answered your own question. Its not what everybody else says or thinks. they are not in that relationship with you. and if he gets agitated with your daughter, that is a red flag. having sex complicates things when you are supposed to be "just friends" So, be a friend and date other people.
2007-01-13 23:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
him not telling you he loves you doesn't have anything to do with any of his prior marriages, it's simple he doesn't love you, it's sad that a man would be with you for so long and even be around your kids. you need to move on because you deserve so much more and so does your daughter.
2007-01-13 23:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds gun shy----doesnt wanna put him self out there or make himself vulnerable----he doesnt wanna experience the pain he did from his prior marriage---that said----at some point a person needs to forget the past and move on---if after 6 yrs this guy hasnt changed then perhaps you need to reevaluate what you want and if he isnt going to provide it---maybe its time for you to move on---and if he isnt being kind to your daughter then that is another major indication to reevaluate the situation---good luck
2007-01-13 23:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy.
If he doesn't say it, he doesn't feel it or hasn't figured it out yet.
Either way, you gotta move on and find somebody who does.
There is somebody out there who does, so don't waste your time with somebody who doesn't.
If he just wants you to be friends (with "benefits"), that's OK for a few months, but after 6 years?
Move on. Either he will realize what he's missing and come back to you, or you will find somebody else.
2007-01-13 23:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by chercham 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he is stunted and stunting you to. He gets aggrivated with your daughter? Why are you with him? Anyone who shows any aggression towards my daughter gets the hell out of my life. Better yet why not ask yourself whats rong with you for staying with a guy who doesnt even consider you more then his friend.?
2007-01-13 23:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to keep himself "open" to leave the relationship eventually.
2007-01-13 23:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by ezpaced 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That Is A BIG Problem... If That is Going On Maybe he has something going on.... U Need to sit down and talk to him about it....
2007-01-13 23:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋