so there's this guy i have liked for the longest time. i told myself its not worth crying over and its better to get over him but then i made a big mistake and someone told him that i needed to tell him something about "my friend" liking him. well obviously i was that "Friend". he kept asking me who it was and why i didnt trust him and didnt tell him. I didnt know what to say so i told him the truth. i told him that shes starting to get over you. so he said that he wouldnt do anything to make her not get over her. and then idk he was like so you dont trust me? and i do. i really do. with all my heart trust him. so i felt bad. and then hes like "is it you or something?" and idk i cracked. i just said yea. and since then its been wierd. and all he said was its ok...whats that suppose to mean? its ok? im really confused? does he not like me? or is he trying to let me get over him? -either way i feel broken and shattered. anyone have any advice?any help? any clue of what he feels & thinks?
2007-01-13 14:55:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u know u really messed up there, and girls like that REALLY make me mad. If u really wanted him u would have broken out of your shell and talked to him or tried to get to know him. aint much u can do now because not only does he think youre weird he also may not trust u. Its called maturity and u acted in an immature way. us guys like maturity and the bullshit u tried to pull on him backfired so now he dont like u. aint nothin u can do. obviously he didnt have time to play this little mind game with u. next time dont do it either come right out or dont come off at all. he is proabably mad at u for wasting his time. "my friend is starting to get over you" wat kind of bullshit is that? GROW UP and see how much it works wonders. thats all i got to say.
2007-01-13 15:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said it's ok cause he really didn't know what to say to you...He didn't want to hurt you anymore . As to have you move on from him. But you should call him and see if he likes you or not. If not take a break from him for awhile and give yourself some space and time to heal and just move on. There has to be someone outter for ya.. If you need to talk you can contact me !!!!! I'll try to help ya.
2007-01-13 23:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he came up with the question of saying "is it you or something?", i'm pretty sure he may like you. And i think that "its ok" also could mean he's disappointed that you are getting over him. But i could be wrong...this is a hard one. Maybe if you can explain his tone when he said "it's ok" and "is it you or something", it might help me understand what he's feeling. Sorry bout that.
2007-01-13 23:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rafael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well if he doesn't like u then whatever there will be alot of guys coming and going in our lives don't obsses over 1 guy cuz u could be missing out just tell him u wanna talk just as friends u never no he might be a totally different guy then u thought he wuz just be open to more options not just him
2007-01-13 23:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by secret person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it was rather confusing. I would bet that he didn't know what to say because he was still trying to figure it out. I would say the chances are that he likes you - but he might have been suprised by it and needs to think about it.
2007-01-13 23:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Brad J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a nice, considerate guy. You were able to talk to him then, so talk to him now. Ask him to give you a few minutes for a conversation. Ask him what he meant. I think he will handle the conversation with honesty and respect.
2007-01-13 23:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by MW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two both sound really young and immature. How old are you?
2007-01-13 23:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to think.
2007-01-13 23:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by oldster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should just tell him it was u who was the on that liked him. good luck
2007-01-13 23:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋