iv'e never asked a girl out before and ive never asked a girl out who has just broke up with her boyfriend
2007-01-13 14:51:06 · 15 answers · asked by crunchy taco munchies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she just broke up with her boyfriend, the last thing you want to do is ask her out. You will either be rejected or you will be on the rebound. For now, if you guys are friends, offer her some support. Then, I'd say about a month, make your move.
2007-01-13 14:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by *Britt* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, back up a minute---you need to wait with asking anyone out who just broke up with someone. They need time and space...maybe she will go back with this guy. She may not. But only time will tell. You need to be smooth when dealing with women. Read the signs that she puts out. She may even hate men for a while. Do you get a chance to talk to her--just casually? Like, hi how are you ? Just talk nice, be available to see what's happening. Be observant---and if you never asked a girl out---FIRST ask yourself--am I date material??? Would you date you??? Cut and wash you hair, get some nice threads, dress to impress, brush the teeth, get some good stuff to talk about. have some interest in stuff that lures women to you. Don't be too fast to go after girls on the rebound---too many others out there. Don't be discouraged, be nice and smile---learn how to be a gentleman, treat others with respect and courtesy. Be a man when dealing with women--the rest comes naturally---now get out there and have some fun. Good luck
2007-01-13 15:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first thing is, u dont ask her out yet. Give her time because you never know how she may be feeling and u dont want her to get mad with u. Be there for her and not in a way that she may feel like ur using her but in a way that she would realize that ur there for her and that u wouldnt hurt her. If its meant, in a lil while yout two will end up together.
2007-01-13 15:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Sheenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you what NOT to do. Do NOT tell her that you have liked her for a long time. If you are already friends with her, you can tell her that you have started to become interested in her LATELY. It's as simple as that. Women don't respect men as much who like them for a long time and haven't had the courage to ask them out. If you're not a friend yet, try to be one. Talk to her about the breakup and how she's handling it. As you each get to know a little about each other, you can compliment some things you like about her and tell her you'd like to date her. You have to take a risk, but those are ways of minimizing the risk of being turned down. Don't be a friend too long of she will never be able to look at you as boyfriend material - you'll become like her little brother.
2007-01-13 14:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a smart idea to ask her out right now.. right after she broke up with her boyfriend. she is really vulnerable right now... which sure that will make it easier on you to ask her out since she will most likely say yes...... but do you really want your relationship to begin that way? ..not if you want a strong one.. you need to wait awhile.. i would say about 3 weeks or so. just being in the position of being there for her in this time will put you in that top position for when the time comes to ask her out. being a good friend and being there for her will help you become closer.. starting your relationship off better for later when she's healed awhile! good luck!
2007-01-13 14:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now isn't the right time to ask her out because she just came out from a relationship and is still hurting. Unless you want to get yourself in her rebound relationship, give her some space to breathe for now. You can make yourself available for her by being her friend, the person who will lend a shoulder to cry on and to pour out to. Good luck!
2007-01-13 14:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask her out now! just be a good friend until she heals you know! then when she feels like she is comfortable with you and is over the boy ask her out!
BEST OF LUCK♥
2007-01-13 14:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by "just". If you mean yesterday or last week/month, wait a while and she'll be more willing to consider a new relationship.
2007-01-13 14:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by mikkabellipoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best that you remain friends until she is completely over her bf. If not it can result in her bringing him up a lot. You can get hurt if she ends up going back to him.
2007-01-13 15:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by *RaP sTaR* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree. Let her grieve for awhile and just be her friend. 'Cause right now she probably doesn't want to date anybody. Just be her friend for awhile and when she is over her grieving then ask her out.
And if it's not her there are plenty of others.
MJ
2007-01-13 14:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋