why d oboys always acept a girl for her boobs but never for her real self?
2007-01-13 14:50:22 · 26 answers · asked by Paige O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they are driven by hormones lol butr not all men are like that.
2007-01-13 14:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Em 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completely disagree, and as a male, I consider myself a bit of an authority on such things. Boobs are boobs, and they're great. And they're even more great if they're attached to a consenting, mutually ephemeral girl who you're going to explore promiscuity with and never see again. While this is fun, and has it's place, the people who only look for boobs are the ones missing out.
The real trick is, is that if you make it worht our while, we'll love more than your chest. Guys, despite our path-leading constant boners, do need someone to hug, and nurture, and love. And while that sounds all ooey-gooey lovey, it's just a part of nature. And since we need it, it would be awesome if she could entertain us, challenge our brains, and be interesting.
And it doesn't hurt if she's got some fine knockers.
See what I mean? Most men, the ones who aren't complete morons, really like boobs, but they also really like _girls_. The boobs are a nice plus. So try not to hate on us too much, we are only a few thousand years out of the jungle.
Hope that helped
Cheers!
2007-01-13 22:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Maxwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there lies a fact that boys take comparatively more time than girls to become responsible and matured. Mainly at the teenage, most guys think that girls are just to make men be merry. Although they can understand that girls play a major role in the society, their mind setting fails to accept the latter. But ther are guys who dont go by the look of girls, but such guys are few in number, that's all.
2007-01-13 23:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by sri iyer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so not true. im gona say it like it is & sorry if i sound up-myself [which i so am not, btw], but i've got the biggest in my year group & yet still the guys go for my bestest mate ever, who is flat as, well, flat. and we're really similar [but different in some ways. like im the one that'll get out there and start moshing to the music, or sometimes shy, but emotional. and i know she's beautiful inside & out.]
know what i don't get? why when, say, i'm standing waiting for a mate outside & looking in the reflection in the glass window; then 2 hot guys walk past & totally stare at me [they don't know im looking though, through reflection]. i can't see a smile or any emotion. makes me feel like there's something wrong with me. seriously.
boys are strange.
2007-01-13 22:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paige, that's because they are boys. When they grow up to be men then they get smart and love you for who you are on the inside. Boobs can't talk to you when you're down, or listen to your deepest fears, but a whole woman can. Wait for a real man who loves your heart... and whatever you do, be honest with him. Men hate women who lie.
2007-01-13 22:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately not all men are like that. But boobs to guys are very interesting. they don't have them and not only that but they are out there. If a guy cant accept who you are then hes definitely not worth your time.
2007-01-13 23:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysXconfuzd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them but yea its said that boys feel an attraction initially by physical means whilst girl tend to accept them on a more emotional/spiritual level if that makes sense
2007-01-13 22:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if ur with a guys that only in u for your boobs than ur not with the right guy and ur not looking for the right guy but guys like boobs hormones drive them to it
2007-01-13 22:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are like that. You might pay attention to those who don't because there are many who aren't so impressed by a female's shape.
2007-01-13 22:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boobs are easier to see and less complicated.
2007-01-13 23:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all the time, but boobs are nice toys.
2007-01-13 22:55:48 · answer #11 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋