Should I tell my parents what I did.?

Question

Well last weekend my b/f came over to watch a movie with me at my house, and my parents said he could come over when they went out of town since they felt I was responsible enough to have him over when they were away. But then he went down the hall and I didnt see where he went. So I looked for him and he was laying on my parents bed. I go over and I say what are you doing then he says come over here. I do thinking he just wants to make out. But then he says he's ready to take the next step. I was nervious, But then I said let's go for it. He spent the night over at my house, and we had sex. I havent told my parents... should I? Im only 16.

Answer 1

no beep way, don't tell them, you're old enough, you had a good time, keep it so, but don't say a word, they won't understand :p

Answer 2

i think you should! sure you may get into trouble but they trusted you and you let them down. sooner or later they will found out by a friend of yours or their parents or something and they will get way mad, madder then if YOU told them.
if you tell them, they will know you really are responsible because YOU told them NOT someone else and it takes ALOT of courage to tell someone a BIG mistake that you did. It may be hard but trust me, its worth. I mean, what if you get pregnant? they will have to know and....you will REGRET IT for the rest of your life, and your child will remind you of those memories. Even if you think it was safe sex, it probably wasnt. As you should know, Sex no matter how you do it, is very bad and can get girls pregnant. I mean, there are probably more minors/girls pregnant then there was a few years ago. Just tell them, believe me, you will be glad you did. Now go for it and have courage! if they scream, just remember, you are brave, smart and what you did is what you did out of your decision. If they scream, then maybe thats what you get for doing such a thing.

*Tip: DONT say you did it in THIER bed.*

Answer 3

Everyone is saying don't tell them and honestly, it would be hard to tell them. But in the long run, when (not if, because they will find out) they find out, you'll be in a lot more trouble than you would have been if you had told them in the first place. In a twisted sort of way, telling them right away would actually make them trust you more since they would then know that you're responsible for your actions.

Answer 4

1. your bf could be charged with statutory rape if they found out and got mad and decided to press charges

2. you could be pregnant

3. tell them. that way if you are pregnant, they won't have to find out later.

4. but they still could press charges

5. you should have never betrayed your parents' trust in you.



Don't tell them unless you find out that you are pregnant. Since it was last weekend, go get a pregnancy test from Wal-Mart and use it ASAP. Get the equate brand. the 2pack is less than $10.

I would advise you to abstain from sex until marriage anyway. cause when you are married, you can do whatever you want with your spouse.

Answer 5

As a child you should not have sex until eighteen.I sub-just that you admit the fact that you were wrong take courage one day when your parents are happy or in good mood,tell them what happen and apologies to them.As parent may be they forgive you ,and also try to be a good girl and do not repeat that act ever again if you know your parent will not allow you to.

Answer 6

I wouldn't. Just be responsible for your own actions and if you feel it was wrong, just don't do it again. No reason to ruin the trust your parents have in you over something that you can handle yourself. Yeah, you are only 16 but now you are making decisions for yourself. If you tell your parents, you will just ruin thier trust.

Answer 7

sounds like an episode of Seinfeld---but anyway----I dont think you made a very wise decision and I know your parents wouldnt be very happy if they found out------seems like ur struggling with a lot of guilt for having violated your parents trust not to mention their bed sheets----your b/f and you need a smack in the head---Now although this will be very hard for you to do I feel the right thing to do is tell your parents and be sure to apologize in a way that shows you are truly sorry-----they will be upset but will respect you for being mature enough to confess----good luck

Answer 8

You didn't say if it was your first time or not, but I hope you didn't do it in your parents bed. What you did is not uncommon, but it is a little disrespectful to your parents. They felt you were responsible to have him over to watch a movie. Not seduce their daughter. Oh, and don't tell your parents. I hope he used a condom.

Answer 9

Yes... Because If You Don't They May Not Trust You Again.... I Wouldn't Keep Anything From Them.... They Need To Understand Your Growing Up....

Answer 10

Speaking from a mothers point of view. I would just want to know that he was there to watch movies, not de-flower my daughter. I would not want to know that my daughter lost her virginity in my own bed. I would not tell them about that part. But it really is not a good idea to put yourself in a situation that you are having to lie to your parents. I wish you the best with this situation.

Answer 11

TELL MOM AND DAD!
You DEFINITELY should go to a doctor for a physical.
What if you caught something? There are too many diseases out there, that if you do not treat them in the beginning, they WILL grow into something serious.
Your health is more important than "what mom and dad will say"
If I Tell Them.