how do you please a woman in a relationship without over doing it?

Question

ok, was in a 15 year marriage 2 kids divorced. i'm a family man for sure nothing means more to me i want a good life and a wonderful wife to grow old with sappy huh oh well that's me anyway....
i've been dating a woman for 3 plus months like her alot but i feel like i'm driving her nuts she is patient but likes her space(quiet time). i don't fully understand the space thing the last time i heard that my ex was cheating on me. i'm afraid of getting hurt again so i'm covering all bases to ensure sucess but recently it feels like it's having the opposite effect i'm confused and scared is there a triumphant way to be nice without being given the catch phrase "you're a nice guy but" i don't want to screw this up however i see it coming when i try to recover it snowballs and gets worse HELP ME PLEASE!!!

Answer 1

she's not attracted to you sexually. the only other way to keep her is to spend....spend...spend.

Answer 2

You seem to be preconditioned to believe that because your new woman needs time to herself that she may be cheating on you. But it is not necessarily so. I never used to need my own space until I got up into my 40's and I need to get away from people after working all day with the public and listening to noise and clutter. Give her a chance. Look at a few websites that tell you the signs of someone cheating and I think your making a mountain out of a molehill. Good luck.

Answer 3

Women want space when they aren't very interested in guy or have no intention of getting in a committed relationship. So you better start looking. Don't settle in on one person so quick. some people for what ever reason aren't ready for a committed relationship. Some might never be ready. It isn't you. It is them. They might not want to marry on the rebound or got hurt and want to take it slow and easy or date lots of guys. you can't read their minds. Usually if they just got out of a relationship they aren't going to be quick to jump back in to one. Pray and ask God to send you who He would have for you. Pray every night. Even give him a list of the traits you would like in a woman. If you are faithful He will answer. Remember sin blocks prayers form being answered so be good. Best wishes. There is a gal out there for you. Be patient!

Answer 4

Dont worry, if she says she needs her space, it means she has to think about how to continue with u.Every person needs a brake of someone in order to make better decisions.U shouldnt be pushing it too far. If u dont want to recieve those "ur not a nice guy but..." u should tease more the women. Cuz we dont rly like a guy who gives us everything,in means that its easy to control nice guys like u. U should be more tough and show her that ur not a waste of time.U should change ur atttitude towards women.These days changed comparing to ur marriage 15 yrs ago. Also talk to her about it,but give her time to think.

Answer 5

First you have to get over your past,then once that is done start dating without commitment so you can test the water, just be upfront about your past when you meet some one but make it brief, with out giving much detail. Unless you show confidence,the lady you meet may not be interested. Stop dreaming about your future with the person you about to meet or date, that may not be their intention. Once you get some one you like and have common interest , then you can plan about the future. You got to find some one who accept your past for a life time,since you can not leave your past due to your children.

Answer 6

Give her the space she needs. You are probably smothering her with attention. Just let the relationship take it's own direction with mild prodding from you to try to keep it on course. Always communicate your feelings to her as well....she will love that more than anything!