if a guy has texted every single night for just under about 3 weeks straight.. and you have talked on the phone for like 2 hours about once a week (like 3 times) and you've become really close and all... and then all of a sudden a day after being like this he just answers your texts with one worded answers and he no longer really texts anymore on his own.. without you texting first... and he pretty much ignores your questions and everything and doesn't seem interested.... do you think this is a problem? or do you think he doesn't know he's doing it? (even though it was obviously such a drastic change for him to be extremely interested like that to all of a sudden not..?!)
2007-01-13 14:36:18 · 17 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but he is the most amazing guy i have ever met and do NOT want to lose him... just so you know... :)
2007-01-13 14:40:58 · update #1
i added that in defense to the first comments that he was gay.. because he's not. and i am not too young to be focused on one guy either..
and thanks to all those great comments some of you guys have given!! i appreciate em!
2007-01-13 14:47:21 · update #2
and he's not on vacation.. and nothing tragic happened to him..
2007-01-13 14:49:42 · update #3
well if you are so concerned then you should really do all u can to contact him or see him to figure out what is going on. other than that just give it time but then again dont waiste your time waiting because life is to short to wait
2007-01-13 14:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Abaloon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally after 3 weeks there is no interest, but he could be on vacation or something. You are too young to be hung up on one person any way.
2007-01-13 22:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy's wife/gf found out about yall. Either she is the one sending these to you OR she busted his eye, broke the finger he used to send texts and smashed the hand he used to hold the phone. Oh and she boxed his ears.
Therefore, he can't text you, hear you if he were to call or hold the phone for that matter.
this is my story and i am sticking to it
2007-01-13 22:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have already made up your mind to try and salvage this so why are you asking us. You are trying to convince us that he's the greatest thing since sliced bread by your note added on. You know most will say ask him or dump him....so....which is it gonna be?
2007-01-13 22:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys do this? they come on hot and heavy and then lose interest.
Ignore him for awhile and see what happens. Don't take his bull sh*t.
2007-01-13 22:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a typical 15 year old.
2007-01-13 22:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take it to the next level, he's getting bored. Get aliitle action goin. Sex him up abit.
2007-01-13 22:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by jdog33 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like hes not interested. but i stop talking to girls when they put off as they don't like me. then they start talking to me. then i start talking again. then they stop. people are weird.
2007-01-13 22:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by flamemaster_lang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if he wanted you, he would be after you. Lose the loser and move on!
2007-01-13 22:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by asiansensation 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe somethin tragic happened in his life!
2007-01-13 22:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by fred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋