i have an ex. shes only my ex bcuz we acted like we just weren't compatable. we had been 2gether 4 8 months and 4rm the time we broke up until about a month an 1/2 ago she acted like she was still in love with me but i wasnt so sure. now, shes found some1 else and it hurts. i love her and always have. i just wasnt IN love with her. Now i think she might b gone 4ever but she tells me shes gone come back to me bcuz she says she still loves me and is in love withme but since shes been talking to other ppl shes been treating my crap. i dont know what to do. i love her and i want us to have family 2gether later on. i know i waited a long time but it took me awhile to understand just how much i love her. i need help!!!!!!
2007-01-13 14:34:49 · 10 answers · asked by sbriscoe2008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to me it sounds like she's playing mind games. she likes the attention you're giving her and you're feeding into it which makes it even worse. let her go! it's not as easy as it sounds but you said it yourself that she's treating you like crap. some relationships aren't meant to be. you sound like you're in your early or mid twenties, which is still young. there's someone out there for everyone so don't get trapped into this girl cause once you find somebody that "really" likes you, she will no longer be in the picture. and remember you don't have to be in a relationship to be happy but good luck on finding someone.
2007-01-13 14:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know what you've had until it's gone. doesn't sound to much like you want her back for the right reasons. the brain is a powerful tool and sometimes it leads us to want this we can't have but i'll give you an example. you have cable tv for a year and you're like the bill is to high and say it's not worth it and disconnect it 2,3 weeks down the line. you miss the cable because you no longer have it. even though the bill was high you start to think. maybe you should get it back. it works basically the same. best thing to do is find someone similar to her or similar to you're needs and who makes you feel the same way she did or better because you're going no where waiting for her to come back when it's a possibility she never will.
2007-01-13 22:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is trying to make you jealous. Girls do not like to wait around. If you think you would want to spend your life with her and have a family then you need to tell her so. She might change her mind and come back to you. I f she still is a brat then let her go. It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. good luck!
2007-01-13 22:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by rileycallsmecuzzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget it, find another girl. she just playing with you. It may be better to look for some one that might be compatible with you. Why take abuse, she seem she is trying to control you since you know you have a weak heart for her. Wake up smell the coffee. Be in charge of your life, get over it. Change is good, you will find a better choice.
2007-01-13 22:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so man...you just are jealous because someone else is tapping it. think about it...are you really goping to be happy. You even said you aren't IN love with her...let her go andf find someone to make HER jealous and you'll be fine!
2007-01-13 22:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL JUST GO OUT AND TELL HER WHAT YOU JUST TOLD EVERYONE ON YAHOO ANSWERS BUT I MEAN EVEN IF SHE IS SEEING OTHER PEOPLE YOU CAN STILL TALK TO HER.
2007-01-13 22:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by funkylilbrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you only want her cause someone else has her!
2007-01-13 22:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that strongly about her, then do whatever it takes to get her back. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-13 22:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Smarty Pants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes you don't get a second chance in life. Get over it and move on .
2007-01-13 22:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, you do need help!!!!!
2007-01-13 22:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋