Okay, a friend of mine, met this guy here on yahoo Q&A's. They started corresponding everyday (just e-mails). We live in Canada, he lives in California ( I won't mention his name, out of respect to him, although he does not deserve it). Anyway, about two months into the relationship, she found out that he was writing to another woman aswell. I guess it is one of the many risks when you meet a total stranger on-line.
She cut him lose, but now they are talking again, as friends. I'm against this, I believe he is only doing it to try to get bck with her, only to end up hurting her all over again (she still cares about him). I'm trying to make my friend see this, but she won't listen...am I wrong to get involved?
Serious answers please!
2007-01-13 14:34:14 · 9 answers · asked by kinkiness101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if she's old enough to carry on an on-line relationship with someone, then she's old enough to make her own decisions. You might want to be a good friend to her, but this really is her decision. Besides you said that they were just friends, there is nothing wrong with being friends. If this is a mistake your friend makes, then it's one that she will have to learn from, not you.
So maybe you should just support her, and see what happens.
2007-01-13 15:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong to interfere your a friend caring is what you do just let her know your concered but dont be like a mother and block the website or anything let her make the mistake and then just be there for a shoulder to cry on but try to advise her away from him and sonstantly remind her of all the bad stuff he put her through let her klnow its not worth it and also let her see your worried once she sees your that concered she'll probably move on but if she doesn't all you can do is wait to see what happens as horrible as that may sound it's the truth you have to let people do their own thing on their own time just let her know that your there no matter what trust me support is needed when stuff like this happens =) hope i helped
2007-01-13 22:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all...it really is her relationship, so all you can really do is tell her you're concerned and why.
My boyfriend & I met online. He was pming another girl and got me by mistake. The first several months we were chatting, I have a feeling he was talking to other women. But at some point he realized it was me he wanted to be with. He was in Wisconsin & I was in Ohio. He eventually moved to be with me and we just celebrated our 2 year anniversary. So it's hard to say where her relationship is going. Just be her friend and be supportive.
2007-01-13 22:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by motomouth_1965 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your friend hooked up with someone real. For god's sake that's pretty pathetic, being hurt by someone who lives 1000s of miles away and you don't even know. That is idiotic. Too bad you're her friend because if you weren't you should really tell her to get a life.
2007-01-13 22:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A relationship across that much distance couldn't have gotten that serious, and shouldn't have been assumed to be exclusive. If your friend wants to continue to chat, that's her business... Just let it go.
2007-01-13 22:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Snoopy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has to learn the hard way. Don't stress yourself out over that...Don't get involved in their relationship but be there for her when he screws her over again without telling her, "I told you so"...
2007-01-13 22:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by winterblues 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ur bout dead even i understand that u dont want ur friend hurt or nething but theres nothing rong with being friends so im with u and u friend is lucky to have u
2007-01-13 22:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Nathan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well no offence but online people can be pervs and much more. internet an be scary and i bet you a great friend for caring.....but it is her deal she ever gotten involved so i would let her handle it but i respect your caring
2007-01-13 22:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Abaloon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-13 22:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋