4 yrs ago my dad had a stroke & heart attack & had 2 move in w/ my brothers 2 go 2 physical therpy.I used 2 c my dad EVERY SUNDAY!After he moved (day after x-mas) we promised 2 visit 4 times a yr.My brothers moved 1 hr past dad 2 yrs ago & nw I only visit twice a yr My dad I visit 4 times but last yr only was able 2 once & my brother once.Saw my brother & sister-in-law 3x in the last 3 day & now feel loney!Hubby sayd have attitude but I don't feel right.I feel like I do EVERYTIME I leave my dad like I'm only half living, like I'm leaving my heart w/ them!I feel like I'm alone!I want 2 visit my family more but hubby says no & won't give me the $ 2 go 4 a week!I want 2 move up there but hubby says no plus have step-son,his family,my mom&sister & nephews here!I just feel wierd!My dad is not doing well his dr said he is @ risk 4 another stroke &/ heartattack & this 1 will kill him!Everytime I leave I feel like I'll never go back again!Y do I feel like this,I want 2 do something but what?
2007-01-13 14:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by Missy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
maybe you and your brothers and the rest of the family all put in and buy him a computer get him set up on yahoo chat and put a web cam on it that way you can have live chats with him and you wont feel so bad.. just a thought
2007-01-13 16:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you have no control of your situation, you need to release the emotions inside of you or YOU will get sick, too.
Do every day; stretching and aerobic exercises.
Get The Step. Do it when you wake up, 50 steps, and again at night, 50 steps. Just before you go to bed.
Stretch and move your neck all around, and your shoulders. Stetch, squat, etc. your legs. Get everything stretched and moving.
You will physically and mentally FEEL better. I will pray for your dad.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-13 22:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋