2007-01-13 14:30:44 · 23 answers · asked by samantha e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you back off and wish them well.
You are not in love with him, you are infatuated. He is obviously set on whom he wants to spend his life with dear. You must now get on with yours. Leave them alone.
2007-01-13 14:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Samantha, Sweetie, I think I know what you're going through.
it may be really hard your heart, but wish him the best, but maybe you should let him know how you feel, or does he know already? Either way, a good heart to heart wouldn't hurt at this point, especially if he's your best guy friend... (I have one too, he's divorced and I don't think he'd be lookin' to ever get married again)
But I do wish you the best with this situation!
J.
2007-01-13 14:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She made her choice, right ? Why weren't you at the position of that guy ? Why didn't you propose her before ? What do you have to offer her as compared to the engagement with the other guy ? Are you ready to go for it ? Then make your move. Otherwise, let her find her life, and make a family.
2016-03-14 05:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him way before the wedding he needs to know ahead of time but onyl tell him if your sure he might love you you dont want to look foolish another thing is if he is really happy dont ruin it for him it is his wedding and im asumign you've had more then enough time to tell him it's his day dont put him in a hard place and move on but if you really can't live without him tell him then if he acepts you apologize to the bride because you just ruined her life... but if he declines you then wow...thats all i can offer c'mon dont you watch the movies?!
2007-01-13 14:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He'll never know he may be making a big mistake, if he never knows the truth. If he finds out you love him, then he may realize he loves you wayyyyyy more than his fiance. Just tell him the truth. And if it works out the way you want it, him being with you, then congrats. But remember, he may be in to deep with this other girl, so dont work yourself up if he doesnt stop and change his life because you told him. but i hope it works out for the best!
2007-01-13 14:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Megan_016 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't mess it up with him and his fiance, so it would probably be best not to tell him. Give it some time, I'm sure you can get over him in a little while.
2007-01-13 14:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Who, Me?? ...I'm Lost... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too late, get over it, your time will come. What you have had was not love, it was infatuation otherwise you could have acted on it and the out come may have been different. Be a good sport attend the wedding, you may meet some one you might like.
2007-01-13 14:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds a little late to me. if he's engaged he has to be madly in love with this other girl. you can tell him but his feelings towards you may change and he may tell her and she won't like you at all. good luck with that. but just sounds like you've past the deadline
2007-01-13 14:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever try telling him your feelings before? Your feelings aside, is the girl good for him? It may cause problems if you bring them up now considering the situation, so it may be best to get over your feelings (I know this is hard) so you can continue being best friends.
2007-01-13 14:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your inlove with him and see what happens. If he loves you back he won't get married or if he doesn't love you back you lost your chance! Sory and Best of luck.
2007-01-13 14:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sarbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋