Why do people still stay in relationships when it hurts so much to be in one?
Why when you are in a relationship you feel all your pain that was hidden before slowly come out?
Why do people change when they are in a relationship?
How can someone falling in love so quickly fall back out of love?
How can you stay with someone who stopped loving you the way they use to?
When they stop loving you, why do you still love them?
2007-01-13 14:28:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Dido. People stay in relationships because they love one another so super much that if they were do break up they just don't know how to do it and this is what makes them afraid.
If you truly love and cherish the person your with and you instantly click on everything then your in love.
People change because their true colors are starting to come out. After being together for awhile and if things aren't going well people just start to get on each other nerves.
To answer the last couple of questions; people stay together for many reasons. But truly they stay together because they love each other so much. Because we want to stay with that particular person even though they don't love us is because we think we can change that person in reality we can't. We will always love that person knowing all the great times we had together.
Breakups really suck especially when you pour your heart out for someone that you've been with for 5 years. Not only that is when you put your best foot forward and go way beyond the 110%. And then they drop the bomb on you and throw a bunch a meaningless stuff in your face.
But without breakups we may have never met the next true love in our lives.
MJ
2007-01-13 14:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People stay in relationships because without love there is no happiness. It eventually ends up that way. You feel like all of the material things bring you little happiness. You need more. Love provides it for you. And of course, you have to take the bad with the good.
You can't stay with someone who doesn't love you. It won't work.
When someone stops loving you, you still love them because they are still the wonderful person that you fell for before you knew they liked you, yet they don't like you anymore. And you miss those good times you guys had.
2007-01-13 22:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a poem. but anyway being in love is a wonderful thing and it's gonna happen to us more than once but just because you had a bad experience in one relationship that doesn't mean it's gonna happen in the next one. and falling out of love is not easy for some. you can't change the way you feel about someone instantly just because they don't feel the same way about you.
2007-01-13 22:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who don't learn from bad relationships, become involved in the same kinds of relationships, over and over again. It's a fool who doesn't know when to quit.
2007-01-13 22:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person wants to find that special somebody in there life and the only way to do that is to try out different types of people to find out the perfect one for you...its like shoes...you may like them all...but there is one that is your favorite pair and are perfect for you...doesn't squish your toes or hurt your feet...but all the other shooes hurt your feet, but you liked them and had to try them...people are curious and have to experience it before they know what they want.
2007-01-13 22:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by alexandria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋