Okay so last night my friend tells me that his gf of 4 years didn't come home until 6AM, even thought she said she would be home around 12, and he wan'ts to know if he should leave her, i say yes but i'm curious as to what other people think.
2007-01-13 14:27:36 · 16 answers · asked by The One 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her excuse was that she had too many drinks after work (cuz she works at a bar/restaurant) and decided to stay by her coworkers house (who is a female)
2007-01-13 14:31:44 · update #1
You cant leave some one for one indiscrection. He should stay with her and throw it in her face for the rest of the relationship. That's what most people would do.
2007-01-13 14:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should find out the whole story. I'm sure he has not always done the right thing. But to be honest, doesn't sound very good, but 4 years is a long time to toss out for one night, unless she did cheat. Tell your friend good luck, and to get as much of the truth as he can.
2007-01-13 14:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-13 14:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say tell him to do what he feels best.. maybe she just was having a really good time. If she came home and went straight to the shower or has hickey's or something then yea he should leave her.
2007-01-13 14:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by SiKofPsYchos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't call and can't give a good excuse for where she was, I would think they really need to have a good look at their realtionship. It may be time to move on. If this is something that has happened before, yeah, he should leave.
2007-01-13 14:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Smarty Pants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
4 years is a long time ---has she given him any reason prior to this incident not to trust her? did she tell him why she was so late? to break the relationship off for this one thing without 1st finding the facts is a bit premature---no dont break up--find out what happened and then decide where to take it----
2007-01-13 14:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspicious. What's her excuse?
2007-01-13 14:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspicious. What's her excuse?
2007-01-13 14:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by ohare banana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say they should talk about it....and is this the first time she's messed up?? if soo thats not worth throwing 4 years away?
but if this dnt seem suspciouse(sorry cant spell,lol) i say leave it alone, if its not broke dnt fix it....
2007-01-13 14:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by m V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE CAME HOME AROUND 6AM THEN SHE WAS MAYBE DOING SOMETHING SHE SHOULDNT HAVE DONE AND IS HIDING IT, NO HE SHOULDNT LEAVE HER UNTIL HE GETS AN ANSWER FROM HER.
2007-01-13 14:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by lexiemarie2424 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋