I ve met a man that is undoubtly a miracle, and i would die for him because i love him so much. But he is jewish and i am christian. On my side, iam expected to have a christian wedding, and on his side, it is obvious that he has to have a jewish wedding, and bear jewish kids. This problem is breaking our hearts, what can i do to make him happy? i cannot by all means convert and neither can he, and yet we both respect each other's faith...
2007-01-13 14:06:38 · 2 answers · asked by madeulo0k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you can do to make him happy is respect his faith and let him respect yours. When comes to doing things like wedding and kids you just have to come to a compromise. If you love each other then it is definately possiable.
2007-01-13 14:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise is intermarriage means that one of your religions gets the axe. And your children will grow up very confused, and relations with the in-laws will be extremely strained -- that is, if the relationship will exist at all.
Love is wonderful, but it cannot conquer all, especially when talking about a major lifestyle difference such as this.
If you love him so much that you would die for him, then you can something like letting him go so that you won't screw up both your lives and your children's lives. Let go now, before it's too late.
2007-01-14 17:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋