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we've been talking for about 2 months but he doesnt care what i look like he just likes me for me what should i do should i go out with him or should i just stay friends.......? (he doenst know my phone#)

2007-01-13 14:01:40 · 21 answers · asked by bradi12 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

If I were you I would not date anyone on chat room.

It's important that you have a visual on who you are going to date.
What if he turns out to be a woman?

What if he turns out to be an old man?

What if he turns out to be psychologicaly impaired?

You are then stuck with how to handle that date that day.

It may turn out to be a bigger challenge than you can handle.

Take your time in dating.

Work on your character, your personal looks, your personal goals and hobbies, and you'll find that the right person will show up automatically.

Don't date out of necessity.

Your posture is all wrong when you date from the internet (you appear to the other person as being in need of affection)

That's what some people feed on.

Good luck,

2007-01-13 14:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by JOHN S 2 · 0 0

No you should not meet someone you found online... too dangerous. Better to not meet someone online. Consider your safety... you would not want to be one of those people who get in to trouble that way and then say how could this happen to me... well come on you met them online... I may be a prude about meeting people online, but it seems like a very bad plan. If you feel you must meet however, make sure it is in a very public place and do not give any of your specifics about where you live or anything else and TAKE A FRIEND!!! If they do not want to meet with you and a friend than that will tip you off right away that they are not looking out for you best interest and you will know to get far away!!!

2016-05-23 22:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lilly 4 · 0 0

Get to know him before you meet him.People on the internet are not always say who they are.Sometimes they could be telling the truth.I met my boyfriend in a local aol chatroom.We talked for 2 years before we met face to face.We have been together ever since that night.That was 4 years ago.If you do meet him make sure you take someone with you and it's out in public and not at your house.Not best to give out your number on here either.

2007-01-13 14:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't go meet a stranger. chat rooms are not the place to base a relaionship. Especially if you are a teenager, it can be dangerous for you. You don't know this person. Chatting online doesn't qualify. Do not give any personal information, address, phone #, or the school you attend. Don't even give your real name.

2007-01-13 14:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0 0

Do NOT ever give anyone on line your phone # - IF YOU DO they can find you - search online and look up your address - All thye need to do this is your ph # --- this person you think you like might really be a kid but he might be a grown man - [a total pervert] they are very slick @ making you convinced they are young, like you are..... be very careful!! please. Only decide to be boyfriend/girlfriends with someone you see/know in person!!!!!!
Someday someone you meet in person will love you enough to see who you are inside - they will be worth the wait.

Want to see what I mean? go to "ANYWHO.COM" Click on where it says "reverse look up" enter your own phone number or a friends # - It will totally lead you to the right address!!! so do not ever give out your # and don't trust someone b/c they show you a picture!! It might be their son! or neighbor! for all you know!

2007-01-13 14:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by ~ kelby67 ~ 1 · 0 0

Maybe not such a good idea guys will say anything to get some (trust me) and with todays perv's out there i would say no. Try using a web cam or something first so you at least know who you talking to

2007-01-13 14:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin C 2 · 0 0

learn to know him more before you go out with him...he doesnt even phone you, so how do you know him fully..sometimes you will know a person when you talk to him...the honesty and how he is as a person basing on the voice... its not safe to go out with someone your know for 2 months only... be safe and stay away from harm...not that i dont trust him or that you shouldnt trust him also, but just be extra careful....

2007-01-13 14:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 0 0

good thing he doesnt know your number...how do you know he is really a kid oh wait let me guess some perv sent you a picture that he downloaded from the net to make him look younger...he got a slang dictionary so he can talk like a teenager...and is sooo ready to find you and rape the **** out of you....well that pretty much covers that part....
duh he doesnt care what you look like **** WTF you think 30-50 year old pervs care what you look like???? you may think i am exaterating or whatever but i am 14 sweetie and uhhh been there and done that...stick to someone you know.....or end up being found dumped in a creek...nakad....brutally raped....oh and dead...

2007-01-13 14:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

so this is kind of a hard onee. definatley be careful. he may not be something hes saying he is. so be veryy careful. if you truly feel like its safe and nothing, absolutley nothing could go wrong, then do what your heart tells you to. but make sure theres no voice in the back of your head telling you it the wrong action. good luckk =]

2007-01-13 14:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by xidontwanttotalkaboutitx 2 · 0 0

Be careful about meeting people from the Internet. They can say they are a certain age but really be an adult predator.

2007-01-13 14:06:11 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0 0

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