Ok ok !Not to be shallow, Lets be honest for a second,I know we have all walked pass or seem some guy whom we subconciously thought "my gosh he's hideous".Thats apart of life,not about being shallow.I understand that theres more to a person than the physical.Sometimes the most unattrative men have the most beautiful hearts.
Lets step outside the box for a moment u sensitive folks.Serioulsy if a fat,hairy,smelly,unattracive man made a pass at you would that offend you,or would you not care????
I'm sure most women set standards...so if you do,would you want some guy like that chasing you down?
Pls no offense should be taken,none is intended.
2007-01-13 13:59:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be flattered that he found me attractive......
I believe all people deserve to be love regardless if they are big or small, tall or short. To be honest, I am not attractive to men that are overweight. I do believe that there is someone for everyone. My personal standard is someone who takes pride in their body. I totally understand that some people will natually be on the heavy side or even have medical conditions that causes them to gain weight. Now a man that smells is offense and letting him know this in a tactful manner could make all the difference. I have dated men in the past that hasn't been the cream of the crop most women would think, however, they have treated me with the upmost. Appearance isn't everything but a standard of appearance is a must have.
2007-01-13 14:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be happy if anyone made a pass at me right now...but seriously, I would probably not be offended, but I think I would ignore it even if I were available. Believe me, I have no place being shallow in any way.
2007-01-13 22:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only super unattractive guys that have ever made a pass at me all seem to be old, like could be my dad old so that kind of grosses me out but then again it is nice to have guys look at u, even if they are unattractive i think. just because they are not nice to look at doesn't mean u should be grossed out that they find you good to look at.
2007-01-13 22:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by melly73080 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if he was unattractive I would not think much but oh that is nice, but if he has bad hygiene (which he does have control over), then I would think wow this guy really thinks he is all that, he must have some mental problem.
2007-01-13 22:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get to know him and give him a chance for at least friendship... more times then not if he is beautiful on the inside that will show and it will bring a certain level of attraction there :) :) :)
2007-01-13 22:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would feel a little less pretty myself. We all feel a little mroe sexy when someone hits on us who we think is cute so why would it not work the other way? I wouldn't want my friends to see, they'd make fun of me for it, but as you said it that's life.
2007-01-13 22:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't offend me at all.. i'm a model in southern california.. duh a lot of guys are always flirting with me... some hot, some not so hot.. i don't really care! it all flatters me.. no one can control what they look like.. and i totally understand that.. if a guy thinks i'm cute, i'll take it as a compliment.. and go on with life.. but if i feel something towards him.. i might ask him to go get lunch or something... but no.. it wouldn't offend me the least bit.
xo- jen
2007-01-13 22:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by beach blondie xox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, trust me, i hate it, I always think to myself, "Why the F does THAT guy like me, am i not that good for 'him'" I have rather high standards as well and I'll be called a beetich later on but that's fine, becasue i know who i am, and WTF can't a good looking guy chase me down good darn it!
2007-01-13 22:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by #35|how misery loves me| 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i wouldn't care if he was just making a pass at me but i would be kinda scared if he was chasing me down or following me
2007-01-13 22:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Yosalin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how women would feel, but if it were me and a nasty looking girl approached me I'd have to check myself out in the mirror. I'd have to know if there's something wrong with me that would make the ugly girl think she could talk to me.
2007-01-13 22:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋