She broke up with me because I was to much of a sweet,kind, and caring person. My feelings for her always comeback. It's like they come and go. When they comeback it really hurts. She has a boyfriend now.
2007-01-13 13:56:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And when my feelings for her comeback I have this thing in my mind that she will fall in love with me
2007-01-13 13:57:36 · update #1
Think about this: If she doesn't like you for who you are, then why bother loving her? To tell you the truth, she is probably not the right girl for you. Most girls would kill to have a guy like you. So keep your options open, and I know that there is someone out there who is perfect for you and who loves you the way you are.
2007-01-13 14:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Baylie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to get over someone when you've given your entire heart away. Don't be so generous with the next one. I had always dreamed of my perfect match and twice I thought I had...that was until I met my husband. He is more than I ever hoped for and I never thought that was possible. Try taking a look at yourself and finding things that you are interested in. Not necessarily to take your mind off of this girl but to focus on yourself for awhile. As long as she sees you the way you are then there is no way she is coming back to you.
I've changed myself dramatically since high school and there are guys now who don't even recognize me and say that they would remember me if they saw me. It's that confidence I gained in myself when I gave up kissing the ground these guys walked on by taking the higher ground myself. Now, I'm way out of their league and the only two people I want in it now are my husband and God. They missed out on a gem when I was diamond in the rough. My husband tells me that I'm am the greatest treasure he's ever held. He is so good to me and I feel exactly the same about him. You will find the girl who is right for you and when you do you will never find yourself longing for another and hoping for the love to be returned. You will be glad that it wasn't.
2007-01-13 22:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, er, her. Here's how the typical guy handles it...
Beer. lots and lots of beer. Shots too.
OK, now once you can't read this any more because you drank so much, go find a woman to sleep with. Do really stupid things - the sorts of things you'll likely regret - with a woman having lower morals than even you in your intoxicated state. You moron. Then, in the morning, blame your ex for what you've done and hate her forever for it.
That's a slightly oversimplified version, but it typically is followed pretty close to 100% by nearly every man out there.
2007-01-13 22:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother, I feel you there. Its ok, though. Take some time to heal.
Have you ever heard of Kubler-Ross's 5 stages of grief (Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and Acceptance). These stages can come and go, and you may not go through all the stages. Grief occurs at any loss, and the loss of a relationship is definatly a griving situation.
What you are feeling is probably the denial. Take your time, and realize that your feelings are normal. If you feel the need, talk to a counselor about it, and he/she might eb able to help.
2007-01-13 22:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmy R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that she's moved and you should too. Either that, or realize she is happy and you coming back would make her life complicated and you need to leave her be, for her sake. Let go and you will both find happiness. Besides, there are tons of girls out there thatwould go for the rare "sweet,kind, and caring person" kind of guy. Good luck and time heals all.
2007-01-13 22:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one breaks up with someone because they are too nice, sweek, kind and caring. That's nuts. She had another reason for ending your relationship. I'm sure of it. If you're feelings are coming back for her then think about that. Think about the fact that she didn't tell you the truth when she broke up with you. There's more to it than she's telling you.
2007-01-13 21:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep telling yourself that she has moved on and you need to, also. When you think of her, tell yourself that she is not thinking of you or maybe focus on the bad parts of the relationship or why your broke up in the first place. Good luck, I know it is hard at times, but it does get better.
2007-01-13 22:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just pick yourself up and go another day.You dont want someone who doesnt want you.Your heart will slowly mend.It will get better with each year that passes.You wont forget her,but the pain will pass when someone new comes along.Just store her in your heart but leave room for new loves.
2007-01-13 22:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by GranGran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this with my ex boyfriend (who is now dating my best friend). I just had to force myself to stop thinking of him. I tried to avoid him, not look at him. I had him on my myspace so i deleted him. We stopped talking. And then I found someone else. I diverted all my attention to someone new. I realized that him and I must not of been meant to be. Remember everything happens for a reason. So I found someone new. Hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-13 22:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear this. When you love someone that feeling kinda of never goes away. Maybe over time your love for her might dwindle away slowly. There is nothing you can do, but respect her decision. If it is truly meant to be she might come back, but that is very unlikely.
2007-01-13 22:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋