my best guy friend likes me as more than a friends and i feel the same way. but the problem is he has a girlfriend that he loves. hes kissed me and flirts with me and he barely talks to his girlfriend. but says he doesnt want to cheat on her...... can i have somekind of advice plzzz
2007-01-13 13:48:00 · 26 answers · asked by ConfuzzledBabiGurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never start a relationship worth someone is already in a relationship. You do not not want to have a boyfriend and have that boyfriend cheat on you. How would you feel if you were the girlfriend? Think of everyone in this situation. No matter what you all loose. Don't screw up your friendship that way. Nothing good will come from doing that. Your friend needs to decide who he wants. Don't choose be number # 2. I would also rethink changing your relationship. Once you cross that line it is hard to go back. Stop being physical with him and safeguard your emotions in this situation. You are also too close to this situation to have clear insight into what is not good about this whole scenario. You also do not want to do anything to hurt anyone else. Be patient and if you want a relationship with him. Start your relationship on the right terms. I think that you will find that he will not leave his girlfriend and you will be gald that you did not get hurt. I believe that bad deeds and actions come back at you 3 fold. Good things will bring you blessings. Follow your heart. You will do the right thing. Kissing him is not going to make him be a better boyfriend and it is not going to help your friendship. I do not believe in passing judgemnt and I am sure you do not want to be judged yourself. I have to say this. If someone else was asking you this same question? What would your answer be? Give that some thought. Take care
2007-01-13 13:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mario L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i ought to admit it is a few thing Ive achieved. Does she like you?? convinced she does. Why does she search for suggestion from different men? would nicely be many stuff...a million. She broke up which includes her boyfriend and is determined for interest. 2. She has low self esteem and needs the upward thrust me up from men to sense more suitable constructive or, she is mendacity, there gained't be yet another guy and he or she will be waiting that you'll be able to leap the gun and ask her out. I say take a probability, if some thing is going incorrect you nevertheless didnt lose some thing.
2016-10-31 01:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PUSH that slime off of you. Ew. Gross.
Look at this picture, and think with your heart.
You have a guy who was your friend who is abusing you emotionally by leading you to believe that it is possible for him to love two people equally at the same time.... Which it's not... because he won't leave her.
When you added in "he barely talks to his girlfriend." You made an excuse for him.
Think hard hun.... and not with your heart.
2007-01-13 13:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already passed the boundary line. he already cheated. he kissed you, that is considered cheating. why doesnt he just break up with her? if he truly doesnt want to be with the girl then he should break up with her. why is he waiting? but for you. dont do anything until he breaks up with her. you already intervened but you dont want to do anything else. wait till everything goes over smoothly. if you know the gf, good luck. but dont do anything UNTIL he breaks up with her. and if you still feel the same for each other then go for it AFTER the break up.
2007-01-13 13:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by roxygirl2828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the gf, suggest a 3-way.
ANY other way, someone's gonna get hurt. Maybe you, maybe her. If he's so undecided, he's gonna get hurt when the decision gets taken out of his hands.
If you can't handle a 3-way, be prepared for a fight. I feel an episode of "Jerry Springer" coming on.
2007-01-13 13:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't talk to his girlfriend that much, I would go for it. It seems as if you guys like each other and I that's how things start. Go for it girl and forget the girlfriend, he should kick her to the curb.
2007-01-13 13:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it doesn't work out its going to be weird,But hate to break it to you all but if he kiss's you he is cheating on his girlfriend already!So if you want to try it out tell him to breakup with his girlfriend if he wants you stop kissing him intill then
2007-01-13 13:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can screw him without him cheating is to have a threesome with him and his girlfriend. Be adventurous, glad I could help. Your truly, Bad Monkey.
P.s. It will cost you pictures for the advice.
2007-01-13 13:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him if he truely does have more than friendly feelings for you, he should probably tell his current girlfriend. Sounds like he has a few kinks to work out. It's not your problem.
2007-01-13 13:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by Here To Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
STOP
DESIST
CEASE
ABORT MISSION
Do not contribute to this man cheating on his girlfriend that he "loves". If he loves her, why is he seeking you out? What if you two get together? Will you ever be able to trust him knowing you cheated with him? Will you ever beleive him when he tells you how much he "loves" you?
2007-01-13 13:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jimmy R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋